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writes:I was on an online dating site. I decided to delete my account because I wasn't happy with th contacts I was getting. Anyway, I had one wink and when I decided to respond, it was from a guy who I had been in love with when I was 18. He came to see me on my job, we chatted online every day, as well as three hour phone calls almost every night. He even invited me to his house. I was there four nights last week for dinner. He asked to spend the night with me, but I wasn't ready for that yet. Anyway, I got a call from his wife yesterday, telling me that she and I should be friends if I'm a friend of his and how she went through him having an affair about four years ago and she didn't want me giving her the same kind of trouble this woman from the past gave her. Needless to say, I have not heard from him and I am mad as hell because infidelity is bad enough, but did he have to have me in their home? ANd I have slept in that bed. I was not feeling well one day when I was there and he suggested that I take a nap. I am so angry that I don't know what to do. Please advise me\.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (24 January 2010):
 Guys a cad. But what I do not understand is how you did not know he was married if you spent time in his house. What was his explanation for the woman's clothes in his closet or the toiletries in the bathroom? And yes, that's pretty bold of him to have you in his house. But those were his choices, you did not know.
He's not contacting you because he either got a concious or his wife set him straight. Let it go. Move on.
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