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I made a mistake and told my long distance love some negative things out of emotion and too much wine! I'm visiting him now and want him to give us a chance!

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Question - (20 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i made a mistake by telling my long disatnce love negative things out of emotion (and too much wine) that led him to believe we broke up. i am here with him now and the day after i arrived we discussed it more clearly. he said after i said those things he got used to being alone and isn't sure about realtionship. a few days have passed and he is being sweeter than EVER...very accomodating and keeping me laughing. he also brings up fun things we have shared. i want to let him know that we should give things another chance...i'm just a little scared to be vulnurable. he is very special to me and i want us to continue our lives together as a couple like we'd planned

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 December 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwell when do you plan to end the distance? if you had plans to end the distance then I think you should apologize and let him know you want to make it work...

how long have you been together...

so many things to address with an LDR....

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (21 December 2012):

I hope this isn't out of nowhere but if you told him he has a small penis or he's bad in bed you should forget about it, because even if he took you back he'd never be the same.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (20 December 2012):

person12345 agony auntIf you want this then you just have to go for it. Yes it's scary, but whether you ask or not isn't going to change his answer in a negative way. If you don't ask though, he might never get back together. You just have to put yourself out there, apologize, and hope for the best.

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