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writes:So for years now my ex's boyfriend’s brother and I have always gotten along really well, we have so much in common and enjoy the same things. But soon discovered I had a bit of a crush on him, but ignored it due to being with my ex and didn't want to cheat.Now months after breaking up with my ex of two yrs, we've been hanging out and going clubbing heaps in secret(so it doesn't cause problems between him and my ex), the feeling of lust and excitement I had for him before have come rushing back and I don't know what to do. I know him too well and what he is like when it comes to women. He wouldn't be good for me emotionally as a boyfriend (he is a cheater), but still lust to be with him just once. We flirt with each other time to time, but I know he won’t want to do anything with me due to me being his brother's ex girlfriend... Ok maybe unless he is a bit drunk...lol.I've never felt this much sexual lust for a guy before, yet alone day dream about what it would be like... My sister tells me to go ahead and have a one night stand with him and get it over and done with, but I've never had a one night stand before it's not the way I was raised... I don't know what to do!?! Do I take action or run for the hills??? Please help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice, will take it in. = )
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 May 2010):
I'm assuming you've heard of the phrase 'playing with fire'. Well you are paying with fire here. He's out to use you. Now I know all you want is a one night stand, but it will not get it out of your system, and will probably make it worse. Then there is the fact that he is a cheater anyway. Then there is the fact that if it comes out, your ex will be made to look a fool while your reputation will be left in tatters. After all, everyone will say you never cared for your ex and just used him to get to the brother. The cons outweigh the pros. You know he;s not a good guy, so why persist with someone who will just use you the best way he can? Move on.
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