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I love my wife but have a sex doll. Why don't I just cheat with a real woman?

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Question - (15 March 2019) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2019)
A male United States age 41-50, *_TRUE_2_YOURSELF writes:

My wife and I've been married for a long time. Our sex life is only 3 times a month now. Sex was a big part of our relationship from the beginning. We would do it as many as 15 times within a month. I understand all the situational things that happen with a woman when she gets older, have children and career. But I told her before we got married that sex is a major part of my needs as a man. Furthermore, I like to buy my wife sexy lingerie only to find it at the bottom of her closet with many of the other sexy things I've brought her. My sex drive is still very high and I don't want to cheat on my wife. Therefore, I purchased this sex doll that cost me about $3000. I'm mixed in my feelings since I have gotten this doll. Am I cheating or am I doing everything to avoid having an affair outside of my marriage? What should I do?

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom + , writes (17 March 2019):

N91 agony auntYou’ve got to be trolling.

Like Wiseowl, I remember your other post where you said your wife was cheating. If all this is true and you’re being cheated on and you’re having sex wth a doll not to cheat on your wife then I think it’s safe to say that this marriage has hit its expiration date.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (17 March 2019):

I remember you, dear sir!

I recall the following post as well:

"Thank you all for your advice. I am so confused and was doing everything I could to help her. I am without dough genuinely lost with this situation. I am a very attractive man, an excellent father, and husband. I provide, my family live very well. I've taken her all over the world. I have a big heart to give anything I have to make others happy. Finally, she has told me repeatedly that not only do I know how to make love but by far have the biggest penis she has ever had. I never give her any reason to be involved in an extramarital affair. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON?"

Okay now. Your wife is going on her possibly her fourth affair. I suspected you were mocking us, and coming-up with outrageous commentary and scenarios in your marriage.

I guess I was right.

If you paid $3000 for a life-sized sex-doll. You may as well enjoy it.

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