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male
age
36-40,
*oethepro
writes:hi, i am in a 'sort of' relationship where my partner is unable to have children, we were ok'ish for 7 months, but we've split up but have decided to remain sexual partners. i want to split it up completly but i still love her and i know that she still loves me. thing is i know that she is wrong for me and that she is very immature and neglectful when in a relationship. i still get jealous and often ask to see her inbox on her phone to check up. its awful, its not me. i dont know where i stand, do i stay with this girl or just finish it all?
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 For one thing, you need to stay the heck out of her inbox. You have no business in her e-mail even if you were married!
If she trusts you enough, she will share what is in there with you voluntarily. But trust is earned not forced.
Furthermore you need to stop taking advantage of her to satisfy your own wants and needs.
It is not fair to her and just keeps her on a leash so to speak. And you have no right to be jealous of her whatsoever.
You need to break away from her and leave her in peace, being the gentleman that you should. Doc
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reader, AskEve +, writes (9 November 2007):
 You know she's wrong for you so my advice is to stop the sexual relations with her and try to move on. You're only continuing to feed your "need" for her and until you stop sleeping with her your emotions will continue to be all over the place.
Set her free and move on... there IS someone out there for you but you'll never find her as long as you hold a torch for your ex.
Eve
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