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female
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18-21,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid,i have a huge crush on a teacher at my school, he is just amazing, when i see him i get butterflies in my stomach and when ever someone mentions hom i go crazy. today at lunch he spoke to my best friend and i was not there but i really cant help but feel so jelous and i cant stop it. im always feeling jealous and i always just want to be with him but i know i cant.please help me get over him thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2016): "I know it cannot be." Have you been reading gothic romances? LOL!! "It cannot beeeee....."
You need to expand horizons -- a few years from now you'll look back on this and smile at how enthralling he was.
Imagine that your dad was the object of a crush ... That should be enough to startle you out of the crush thing.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 April 2016):
 Sweetie the feelings that you are getting are completely normal, and a lot more common than you think. At your age you are changing from a teenager to an adult and hormones can do silly things to us. I guess at your age a girl develops feelings for someone who is older and appealing. That is okay. You have done nothing wrong.
Now you need to be able to handle these feelings. You know that nothing can happen between you and your teacher, so as long as you accept that well then you are doing nothing wrong.
It is hard not to feel this way but the best thing that you can do is distract yourself from this teacher and try not to think about him. If you find yourself thinking about him then focus on something else. Believe me these feelings will go away in time as you are growing and developing.
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