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I kissed two guys in one night. Does that ruin my chances with one of them?

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Question - (22 November 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met this guy who's a few years older than me, and we hung out once and he seems pretty cool. we both went to the club with different people but we ended up talking that night and when we were dancing he kissed me. i kissed him back to a bit i think, but i was pretty drunk.

then he introduced me to his friends and one of them and I talked for a while and then we went to dance and he kissed me too. i know i definitely kissed him back and i think i may like him now because we got along really well.

the thing is he texted me after when we left the club but not the next day. im not sure if maybe they both know that they both kissed me and im kind of worried because im afraid theyre gonna think im a slut but i never usually do this kind of thing, and im afraid that his friend wont call or text me or anything because he might not take me seriously and that he might think "oh she kisses everyone."

please tell me what you think and give me some advice.

sorry for this being a little bit long. thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009):

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thanks guy! that made me feel so much better.

so he ended up texting me the next day for a bit (the friend)and he's quite flirty, but he's also cocky. im not

sure if he's just having fun or if he actually likes me.

any advice?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009):

Show him you are genuine about him, and he's not just another man. And no, you werent dating or being exclusive with any of them so it wont ruin your chances. That is unless they are really weird and picky type of people.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2009):

No, it won't. You weren't going out with either of them, so they have noting to say. but be careful in the future, not because they'll see you as a slut but because one day you might kiss a guy who will hurt you if you're drunk. Always be safe. If you like one of the guys, just get talking to him.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 November 2009):

DoubleM agony auntDo not worry about the kisses. If you really like the guy who continues to communicate with you, then go for it.

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