A
female
age
36-40,
*ay
writes:Hi everyone,I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he gets on well with my good friends, A, B and C who I've known for the same period. He plays and jokes with them so that they can feel free around him. But many times their play fights end in arguments (mostly between him and A) though they always make up. Recently he had a fight with A cos she said something that upset him and this time they have refused to talk to each other cos no one wants to make the first move despite my trying to talk to each of them as there is always tension when both of them are present. I don't know what to do?I had a chat with my friends and I told them that I felt that they don't take my relationship seriously and they replied "cos we don't" I asked why and they said cos he doesn't and that everyone on campus knows it, and that one day I realise it but they can't say cos am in love. This has got me wondering what my boyfriend's been up to, and I can't ask him cos he'll deny it, and I don't even know what to ask. What do I do? And are friends supposed to at that way?
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reader, growing  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 I guess 2 years are not less to know someone.its you who is in relationship with him and not your friend.so don't let other's comments to spoil yr relationship.
As you said that two of them can't even stand each other after the last tiff so may be just out of anger she said those words and this is true that men are smart but girls are smarter,so in case he's not serious then am sure you cud hv get it in last 2 yrs.
chillax and enjoy
try to patch up their friendship.
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