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writes: Hi there, Im 37 and live with my partner of 14 years and have two sons aged 6 and 11. Let me start by saying that I am a flirt, but with no intent on hurting anybody, just friendly. I wish I could say the relationship was flawless but as we all know that dosnt happen.There is a 7 year age difference between us but we are like two pees in a pod, very alike. It all started when I met this girl at work on the nightshift, we got friendly and feelings grew but there was no way that I would even consider going out with her because I loved my partner so much. We started texting each other which made me feel like a boy again, doing wrong it was a buzz, we started getting a bit more dirty with texts, which was fun but had started to worry me about what would happen if my partner found out. So I told her to stop just as my partner found one of the messages, I told her it was not going to happen again and she accepted that.We went on holiday and that was it forgot. When I went back to work I could feel the tension between us but I was happy to get on with my life and let it settle, at a night out she was all over me, and my partner started to put it all together, we all got drunk and went back to the girls flat, my partner said I was up the stairs with her for 45 mins and when she came to get me I told her to "ffff ooo and go back down the stairs" I dont remember any of this. My problems were only just starting will finish later. ta
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reader, shania  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 Im a bit confused here?....Did you tell your partner to "fff ooo?...or the girl that was after you? Either way,you didn't handle it very well.Ok,so you had a few to drink,but you should be still aware of your actions,and what you are doing with this girl.If your partner said you were upstairs with your lady friend for a good 45 mins,then it wasn't your stamp collection that you were showing her.You haven't showed any consideration to your partner and she doesn't deserve this.If i was you,i would avoid this other woman (unless you love the attention) and concentrate on your family....dont forget,you have 2 children to think about.You say you love your partner....well then,prove it.
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