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writes:I have been with my b/f for a few months now. We have an apartment together and really understand and love each other. We used to work together until I got transfered to another branch. Now I have developed a crush on another co-worker who is married. He seems to flirt with me, even playing around with me by bumping into me. We get along great. I love my b/f but want to kiss the co-worker so badly. I haven't told a soul and don't know what to do. I feel guilty but can't help how I feel. The co-worker sending me signals doesn't help. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionupdate..We have talked and it turns out we both feel very strongly for each other however do to the fact we are attached we can not act on our tension between us. We talk everyday and hang out, outside work. Yes the tension is high but we care about each other so we are very close friends.So that's where we are at. Im heartbroken facing reality. Any advice on what to do now would help. I'm confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): IGNORE IT. Do not kiss him, what good would that do? It would only potentially ruin two relationships and cause enormous guilt. Pointless. Just stay away from him. Easier said than done? No, trust me, you can.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): i was in the same situation about 7 months ago! i have a great guy and then i started at my job and my co-worker was attractive and he liked me and i liked him. but as i kept working with him...i realized he is nothing compare to my guy. you're going to have temptations...and sometimes people want what they can't have. but i could never cheat on my guy...and i know he would never do the same. if you have the urge to cheat then you probably don't love your boyfriend that much! i work at a nightclub, so i see tons of cute guys and girls but i remain faithful. i recommend a movie called "why did i get married" by tyler perry and janet jackson...after you see that then you'll realize if it's worth it or not
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