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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:The relationship I have with my boyfriend is slowly falling apart and I don't know what to do.We have been together for a year and in the beginning it was wonderful, he was so affectionate, loved to just talk to me about anything, so interested in what I had to say.Last October we started having problems with this girl trying to break us up, sending him inappropriate texts (I love you, I miss you etc), and he broke up with me for no reason other than he 'needed to sort himself out'.3 days after broke up I found out he had sex with the other girl, but I didnt mention anything, and he asked me back out saying he 'realised he didnt want anyone else but me'Since then things have been rocky, I try to forget what hes done but it still hurts me everyday, Ive told him that I know, and he says it 'doesnt matter because we werent together anyway' but surely, if he loved me, he wouldnt have done it?Ever since this, he invites his exes over to his house claiming their 'just friends' but he does it in secret, and if they were just friends, he wouldnt have to hide it, would he? Lately I've also been extremely ill, and I needed support one day whilst I was at the hospital as I was scared and he told me to 'shut up and stop being stupid and get on with it' He also snaps at tiny things I say, like when I ask him how he feels about me seriously he tries to change the subject or make a joke out of it or says that 'I should know' and I don't understand why if he doesnt want me anymore, he cant just say. I really really don't know what to do, I love him to bits but I feel like hes trying to find reasons to get rid of me, and pushing me away and out of his life.
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reader, Serenity1  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 men tend to act like this when they know we're vulnerable to them...ignore him for a couple of days and act as if you don't care.if he cares any about you he'll start to show it. by calling, texting, etc. just don't contact him for at least 3 days...trust me it works...if he cares about your presence in his life at all he'll contact you
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