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writes: My ex girlfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me about 8 months ago. We had a great relationship but she wanted out eventually to pursue other relationships and experiences.Anyways I've been thinking about her lately again and since I hadnt spoken to her in about 2 months decided to send her a email just to say hi and happy holidays. I found out only about 20 minutes later that she broke up with her current boyfriend the day before i sent the email! Am I going to look now like the biggest most desperate stalker in the world?And now after all this she would not respond to my email. We were best friends, then a couple, then friends, now nothing? I have no clue how to handle this situation. I find my self worrying too much about this... especially since I'm pretty much over it all. Guess just terrible timing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2006): I suppose yall are right. Maybe I'm just thinking way to deep on this one. Especially now that i think her new "singleness" has kick started the old flame again... its funny how those emotions work.
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reader, sheffield_pink +, writes (14 December 2006):
If you're over it then let go and move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): I doubt she thinks you're stalking. She probably hasn't reply because she's a mess right now: she's just broken up with her boyfriend, her ex has reappeared... Don't worry, give her time to mourn her relationship, she'll answer eventually, you'll see.
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reader, cam  +, writes (13 December 2006):
 just email her again and tell her that u jus heard bout her an her bf breaking up an say ur sry bout the timein u jus wanned 2 tlk to her coz its bin so long. it mite not work if she really does think ur a stalker but if u 2 were such good freinds she should probly b able 2 believe that it was jus really bad timing
good luck wif everyfin
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): No your not goin to look like a stalker.... if she says anything about the timing of your email just say you were thinking of her is all...
Maybe she's not after reading your email yet and thats why she hasn't responded or else she's not ready to talk to anyone yet esp just after breaking up with her boyf!!!
Give her time... dont' pressure her cos then you will really look like a stalker...
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