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writes: in situations where you and your ex didn't have a good break - up an awful one at that - that included yelling, name calling, stopped talking for a week or so... being annoyed at each other and jealousy.. and broke up over too many fights. but had a great relationship for over a year. do you think that it is possible to repair a relationship dat had such a bad break up? will love restore? or is love lost forever?
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reader, heartbrokenxx +, writes (14 December 2006):
heartbrokenxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou for your answers!wat i forgot to mention is, i have realized wat went wrong in the relationship we've both had our fair share of space..and i did take alot of it for granted, although now we're takin normally, a lil bit of flirting. he stil gets jealous...i still get jealous but its not something BIG... or we dont tell each other newayz.. is it possible then wen you've already regained ur stability/
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): Sometimes when we're in a relationship we take it for granted. Only when it is over, we then realise how good/bad it was. I think you need to give yourself some space and time to heal yourself. Concentrate on you and not on a relationship that might or might not work. I know of many people who have had big bust-ups with their partners only for them to reconcile a few weeks later. I'm guilty of it too, I've said the most horrendous things to him in frustration and vice-versa,but a relationship like this is destructive. Hopefully when things calm down maybe you can get to talk to each other and sort things out, and learn to stop your destrucive behaviours.
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reader, ::Angel:: +, writes (13 December 2006):
 well it sounds as if you both had some issues that led to arguing with eachother and if you had a really bad break up i honestly dont think theres a chance of rebuilding the relationship because in your mind you will always wonder why you called eachother names, and you will always fight and argue. plus it'll be way too much work to get the relationship back on top xxxx take care xxx
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