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i cant stand the way some people treat eachother. i hope if iv anserd one of your questions that it helped in some way if not im very sorry.
sry but this is sumthing i h8 that ppl seem to say alot (forget about there past) im sry but i mite b the only 1 but you will never forget... dont try.. accept the past, c past it and c the person that owns that past. if you can accept them then you will no longer hav a problem.
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He told me loved me but now he's acting really strange. Should I wait and see if he goes back to normal?
Q. hey. Im eighteen and I've had a crush on my best friend for the last four years. Hes the kind of guy who can get any girl he wants, and be confident without seeming arrogant. He was out of town for half of last year, then in October he told me ...
A. 17 January 2007: i think u'd b rite to just come out with it. your close freinds if thats what you feel lyk doin then thats wat you should do. i wuld suggest the phone tho, not that txt's cant be personal simply that you can get a proper conversation when on tha ... (read in full...)
I want to see my boyfriend as often as I can but I dn't want to be overbearing. How do I get the right balance?
Q. Hi everyone My question is just how much is too much time to wanna spend with your bf. I wanna give my bf time to himself but also wanna see him loads Id luv to see him everyday but dont wanna be too much so how much can i ask if he wa...
A. 17 January 2007: lol in my opininon there culd neva b 2 much time but u could just ask him. the best advice you could get on this would be from him. if you dont like that idea then you could just ask him what he's doin befor you say u wanna come see him, if he says ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend and I really want one. Guys always seem to think I just want friendship. Where am I going wrong?
Q. dear cupid i dont know what is wrong with me. i have such low confidence and find it so hard to get a boyfriend. i lost my mother a year ago and my best friend last august and i have not motivation anymore. not having a boyfriend never used to...
A. 17 January 2007: hey i think u mite need 2 jus b more obvious its hard but tha best way 2 get sum1 2 know how u feel is 2 tell them... jus find a guy u lyk spend time wif him an if u lyk him then tell him.. i know sounds simple and it really is... u jus gotta take a ... (read in full...)
I like this girl but before I got a chance to ask her out it was spread around school!
Q. Really need help! I started to like this girl at school and i got the feeling she liked me too. I was planning on asking her out soon but she told her friend that she liked me and now its hot gossip in the school and making things awkward. How do I...
A. 11 January 2007: mate what's the problem it simple just talk to her and ask its not that hard really.. lol you jus gotta get it over with and ask. goodluck mate... (read in full...)
I constantly doubt my bf! How do I change my ways?
Q. I constantly doubt my boyfriend, and question him on absolutely everything, even though he's never done anything wrong. How can i change my ways?...
A. 9 January 2007: i understand xactly how ur BF must feel, and its a bad feeling but i think you should just tell him what you'v just told us. believe me if he does get upset by you doubtin him then it would mean alot to him 2 hear that. in the longer term look at y ... (read in full...)
He's popular and I'm a geek. I really like him, so what do I do??
Q. I am in love with a boy but hes so popular and I'm unpopular...I was lucky enough to have been put in his class and have gotten to know him over the past three years. I know he likes me too, I can just tell, but he is the most popular boy in our ...
A. 9 January 2007: hey i dont think you really should worry about poularity, if you 2 do like eachother then there shouldnt b a problem. i dont know how close you two are but i think you should just talk 2 him more an wen you feel happy with it just tell him how you ... (read in full...)
He looks at Shemale Porn is this normal!?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been living together for 2 years now. we have a great relationship and good sex. my only concern is that he looks at shemale porn. is this normal? i'm a little nervous to ask him about it....
A. 9 January 2007: personally i would not say this was normal.. if this bothers you i think you should confront him. but if it really doesnt cause any problems with the relationship then it mite not b worth thinking about.
goodluck wif everyfin... (read in full...)
He looks at pics of naked women, so why doesn't he want to dress *me* up and play around with photos?
Q. Please help me - my boyf has always been honest about the fact he looks at porn at thats cool cause i doto sometimes but its like he is addicted to it i know he looks at ametuer sites whenever possible and thats what gets me its just photos of women ...
A. 9 January 2007: this may seem like the obvious thing and u might hav already done it but hav you talked to him about it? i strongly suggest that you talk to him about it.
i understand him feelin uncomfortable with placing you in the position of these other girl... (read in full...)
does this guy fancy me?
Q. I fancy this boy he shows a bit bak but i dont no how do you no...
A. 2 January 2007: simple anser... just ask him. most guys arnt that complicated with this stuff, if you think he likes you just ask him. just ask him wen ur alone with him. if he says he does then tell him you like him to. no more problem.
goodluck wif it if ya need... (read in full...)
I like this girl and I need to know..how do I talk to her?
Q. Well I an not the that good at talking to girls and i really need some tips because i like this girl and she knows but i need tips on how to talk to her i need some answers and fast plz and thank you...
A. 2 January 2007: hey m8 no easy way to tell you this but there isnt anything special that you can really do, you just hav to talk. findin something to talk about is tha hard part. just go up 2 her an tlk lyk it was any1 else, dont try to hard just act yourself be ... (read in full...)
Is it really impossible for men and women to be "just friends"?
Q. i have a question. is it impossible for men and women to be "just friends"? it seems like all the guys i get close to, end up having some sort of feeling for me. then they say that i should have known, because guys and girls cant stay just friends. ...
A. 2 January 2007: hey i kinda thought it wuld b good to get a male imput. umm simply yes i hav alot of close freinds that are girls. there isnt anything stoping girls an guys being freinds. while i understand how easy it is 2 fall for a girl you get 2 know so well, ... (read in full...)
My ex gf wants back in my life after she had cheated and lied to me! What should I do?
Q. well, long story short me an my girlfriend broke up like 2 or 3 weeks ago. we had been dating for like 2 weeks away from a year. she borke up with me, and then a few days later i found she had lied, gone to a dance and slowdanced a few times with a ...
A. 31 December 2006: hey m8 i totaly understand how u feel(recent experience). figure out if you trust her, if you feel lyk you can then i suggest you try it agen. she does sound pretty lost with tha hole thing so u mite wanna tell her how ur feelin an ask for some ... (read in full...)
He's an online love but he won't meet me. How do I convince him to do this?
Q. hi i see you have had alot of questions similiar to this and i know it seems a pain to be repeating the answers but, ive fallen for someone online we have been talking for ages and i trust him i have a sense about him.and he has told me that he ...
A. 31 December 2006: hey, i'v bin in this situation befor but i think you should just reassure him that things arnt goin 2 change. that u love the person he is an u feel that meeting is only goin 2 help the relationship. i think you'll b ok but goodluck anyway ... (read in full...)
I like my son's 17 year old gf! How do I deal with this situation?
Q. My names *Andrew I have a son, hes 19 years old. Im 36, yes I was young when he was born. Hes been dating this girl, *Ashley for six months now. Shes 17 but will be 18 in a few months. They like each other alot but im sure theyre not in love. ...
A. 31 December 2006: think about this. how tha hell is your son goin 2 feel? bad idea m8 very bad idea. there are other women out there you should forget about this 1... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to tell this guy I like him!
Q. well i have liked this guy for a while now when i began to like him he didnt want anything to happen between us we didnt really know eachother that well then but now we are so much closer i dont want to tell him i like him incase he doesn't feel the ...
A. 30 December 2006: i think you should confront him tell him how you feel.i understand you worryin bout it makeing things awkward but its a risk you should take. it sounds like he does like you, and if he doesnt then it'll b weird for a while but it will go bak to ... (read in full...)
I desperately like him but it's obvious he doesn't want to be with me. Help!
Q. my life is so hard a lad i really love who ive never felt this way about anybody before says he likes me when he might be getting something off me and doesn't act like it afterwards and doesn't want to do those things . I try to hard i hate my life ...
A. 30 December 2006: hunni you know what you hav to do. im sry i know this isnt what you want 2 here but its the truth. this guy doesnt love you he's using you. get rid of him you can do better and you will just giv it time. please dont let this happen any longer you ... (read in full...)
My friend moved in on a girl I liked. He says he didn't know about us.
Q. hi guys im not sure how i put this question but here goes.i started talkin to this girl ages ago we got to be pretty good freinds then after a while we got more serious . then a m8 of myn that didnt know about me an her started asking questions ...
A. 30 December 2006: hey its me agen thanks for trying to help but i dont think i made the question clear enuff.the guy told me he would never try anything with her 3 days befor it happend.
after it happend i didnt go off at her a asked what happend that weekend beca... (read in full...)
He said well you love me so prove it
Q. A girl I know just got dumped by her bf. They have been going out for a few months and everything was fine. Then 2 weeks ago it all changed. This girl got sexualy abused by her father and feels uncomfterble now in relationships. When it got worse he ...
A. 28 December 2006: iv had 2 much xperience wif this an i still hav no idea how you make sum1 feel better but first get her 2 dump that fag he isnt worth her time. she can do so much better. be there for her and make sure she knows you are. its really hard to watch ... (read in full...)
I still have that lingering fear that he's gonna change
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he's been talking about getting a place with me. I'd be totally for it except my last boyfriend acted almost the same way in the beginning but in the end turned out to be really mentally ...
A. 28 December 2006: tell him how you feel, talk to him about it. theres nothing any1 else can really do to help you, the other guy may have been a bad experience but u need to overcome the fear. confront it. i know it may seem hard but the cest person to talk 2 about ... (read in full...)
Im in love with him, but no one else seems to like him, and it makes me feel so bad im with him!!
Q. So what do I do when I love a guy I just got with. But Ive known him for 4 years and he has liked me for 2 and I've liked him on and off during the 2yrs that he has liked me. Yet I'm not sure on how mine and his relationship is gonna last cause we ...
A. 13 December 2006: straight anser
if you cant cope with a few idiots that think ur stupid 2 go out wif him, then do u really luv him enuff. it doesnt matter wat they think only wat u and him feel
goodluck hun... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks we don't have enough in common to stay together!
Q. my Girlfriend doesn't think we have enough in common for a relationship do u think she could of meet someone that has more in common with her? or is she trying to make me see that we don't have a lot on common in our relationship. ...
A. 13 December 2006: its a common misconception that u need to hav stuff in common. u dont need to lyk the same places, listen to tha same music or eat the same food. it doesnt matter what stuff you lyk as long as the thing you lyk the most is the other person. i think ... (read in full...)
How can I get this girl to notice that I like her without making it obvious?
Q. hi, i have a problem i realy realy realy like this girl, she is 16 and im 19. How can i get this girl to notice that i like her without making it obvious(im not one of these guys that can just go up to a girl and ask them out probley coz im s...
A. 13 December 2006: m8 tlk 2 her it will get much easyer. i know its best 2 b freinds wif a gurl b4 u try start a relationship but it can make it alot harder on u, make suttle hints while u get 2 b better freinds, wen u guys r closer tell her how u feel if she feels ... (read in full...)
I like this boy, but there are reasons why I think it wouldn't work - what do I do?
Q. I like this boy and people think he likes me and we would make the perfect couple. Problem is 1) my mate likes him 2) when i asked him out for my mate he said he didn't want a gf 3) i told my mates i didn't like him 4) i want him to know i d...
A. 13 December 2006: while i wuld hav sed tell him how u feel i understand how it can feel when sum1 u lyk hooks up wif a freind i still think u should tell him how you feel but only if he's worth damaging u and ur m8s freindship. while ur m8 would b hurt, assumin shes ... (read in full...)
I emailed an ex just to say hi - afterwards I found out she broke up w/ her bf the previous day! I fear that now look like a desperate stalker! Help!
Q. My ex girlfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me about 8 months ago. We had a great relationship but she wanted out eventually to pursue other relationships and experiences. Anyways I've been thinking about her lately again and since I hadnt sp...
A. 13 December 2006: just email her again and tell her that u jus heard bout her an her bf breaking up an say ur sry bout the timein u jus wanned 2 tlk to her coz its bin so long. it mite not work if she really does think ur a stalker but if u 2 were such good freinds ... (read in full...)
Do you think she'd flirt with me in this way if she didn't fancy me?
Q. Can anyone offer any advice on what to do when you fancy someone so much the butterflies in your tummy make you feel a bit sick? I have fallen for this girl in a big way, i have known her since the summer and we flirt alot, by way of eye contact,...
A. 13 December 2006: while i hav 2 admit i do think that she could flirt wif u even if she didnt hav a thing 4 u but it totaly sounds lyk she does only advice u really need is to get of the net an go c her ... (read in full...)
I'd rather have him in my life hurting me!!
Q. I'm in love - very very badly so. He doesnt wanna be with me but for reasons stated above i still let him f*ck me...trust me, the only thing worse than getting with him and it never going anywhere, is not getting with him and regreting it. In abo...
A. 29 April 2006: i'm sry 2 say it but u can do better u luv this guy but he doesnt luv u bak u really need 2 end the relationship if he doesnt respect u then u should not be wif him
please for your sake dont let it happen anymore
good luck... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend's friend be the one for me?
Q. Hey how are you guys doing?Havent posted on here for a while.... Well here comes the problem... I have this really great guy friend{we'll call him bob}.And everyone thinks that me and him look like a great couple they even say we act as i...
A. 25 April 2006: hey i rekon u gotta figure out wat u want the most if u lyk bob so much it's not really fair 2 go out wif aj. but if ya still luv aj and u dont want 2 break it off then u need 2 forget the feelins u hav 4 bob. u need 2 decide wat u want the most if ... (read in full...)
What do guys want? Quirky or normal?
Q. hi i am 15 and want to know what guys look for in a girl? do they want a girl tht is mad, funny and strange lol? do tht want a girl thts more normal and calm? plz tell me thanks ...
A. 23 April 2006: sry 2 be the one to tell ya but we all want differnt things just be u'r self and u will find the right guy for u if u pretend to be sum1 else then u could end up wif the wrong type of guy
good luck wif everyfin... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated, Now I can't forget it, Please help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. He always tells me he loves me but a few weeks ago he was out with his friends and he got really drunk and cheated on me with a girl that is 3years younger than him. i forgave him because he told ...
A. 22 April 2006: look if he told u the same nite he did it he obviously loves u alot it would be the most difficult thing for him to tell u what he did. u should tlk 2 him about it because he will be the only one that can giv u proper closure on it ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend but when do i tell her and how can i start seeing her again??
Q. Cupid, im 16 and i feel like i am in love. I know people might say it might just be lust but i do truely think and feel im in love with my girl best friend who is 15. The thing is sometimes i feel really happy when i think of her but sometimes i ...
A. 19 April 2006: hey m8 i understand how u feel this has happend to me b4 and while it didnt work so well for me at the time i think you should tell her how you feel i dont understand why you havnt seen her in so long but i think u should giv her a call or sumfin ... (read in full...)
Big crush on my guy mate! Tell him or not?
Q. I'm a girl of 18 and I've totally fallen in love with my best guy mate. The trouble is, I have no clue whatsoever how to tell him. Also, I'm worried that if he doesn't feel the same, it will ruin our frienship and makes things awkward. I've got a fe...
A. 17 April 2006: tell him. I compleatly understand your hesitation because of him being a freind but it'll be fine you wont ruine the freindship. if he says he doesnt feel the same way then you will have to cope with it but things should go back to normal between ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined my chances with the guy at church?
Q. Dear Cupid, Recently, I have started to feel attracted to this boy (let's call him L) in my church youth group. He's sixteen and in the tenth grade, and I am fourteen and in the eighth grade (if that matters any...lol). The only problem ...
A. 17 April 2006: hey i'm teenage bloke and this has happend to me befor if he does like you (it sounds like he does)he will have been a bit hurt by it but if he is really interested you can still make it up easy. next time you see him at church just go start talking ... (read in full...)
How can I meet more guys 14-16?
Q. What is a good way to meet more guys (aged 14-15/16)other than joining clubs? And once you've spotted one you like....then what?! Please help! i want to meet someone special to take away the pain from having to watch my closest male mate with h...
A. 16 April 2006: hey i'm a 17 year old guy if you want to meet someone then just get out there it's not like we hide away there will be lots of blokes that will want to meet you it's hard to anser this question without knowing where you live city/country but there ... (read in full...)
Feel like my pet allergy came between me and my boyfriend and his friends!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, I am 19 and he is 6 years older than me. On new years eve he invited me to go round to his friends flat for the bells, as i hardly know his friends i declined the offer. However changed my mind after he ...
A. 3 January 2006: beleive me i know how he feels and breakin up wif him would be alot worse. his mates should want whats best for him and they will forgive him for spending time wif u. if u want to try and make up for it offer to spend less time wif him so he can see ... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex and my boyfriend is returning soon!
Q. I feel so guilty, my boyfriend has been away for 3 weeks now and i have been faithful to him the entire time, then yesterday my ex came over and i still love him very much and we got caught up on our feelings and i ended up sleeping with him. I lo...
A. 3 January 2006: i think first u need 2 decide if u want 2 stay with u'r boyfreind if u have feelings for u'r ex. if u decide u want 2 stay wif him then u should probably tell him. it would be hard for him but eventuly he will accept and hopefully forgive. there ... (read in full...)
never had a bf because I lack confidence...any ideas on what I should do?
Q. im a 16 year old girl and i have never been with a guy.i have two problems i am very shy and lack confidence.it gets me down that i have never experienced a relationship because all my friends do be talking about there boyfriends and it makes me ...
A. 15 December 2005: look i'm a 16 year old bloke and to be honest i cant get my head around the shyest girl i know i'm a shy person at heart but just do whatever u feel like it'l work out it doesnt matter if u'r shy if u are a nice person and u want to talk to blokes ... (read in full...)
At 13, I was traumatized by two men who attempted to rape me! I'm having nightmares now...please help.
Q. I was almost rapped by two men when I was 13, and I dont know how to get over it? I cant sleep, so how can I get some sleep without having nightmares?...
A. 14 December 2005: i'm not sure if this is the right answere for u but self impowerment i know how it feel's to feel defencless i dont know if this is right for u but after therapy that others have suggested u might try a self defense course it will help u feel safer ... (read in full...)
She smiles at me, she texts me, she asks me to walk her home...do you think she likes me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm just wondering: There is this girl who goes to my school (im 16 in yr 11 by the way) and whenever she sees me she says hi and smiles a real big smile. N she always texts me asking to me to walk home with her - she offered me a ride ...
A. 14 December 2005: dude she want's u bad... (read in full...)
No confidence with girls because I feel so short!
Q. I'm currently 15, 16 soon and have had 1 tiny growing spurt this year. Everytime I grow, everyone else seems to tower above me. When will I have my growth? I don't want to remain tiny all my life! I have no confidence with anything especially girls ...
A. 14 December 2005: look mate i'm 16 and i'm 6 foot tall and beleve me it's not any different i'v been this tall since i was 13 and i was heaps taller than everyone and i thought that was a problem but if u just be u'r self it will work out good in the end... (read in full...)
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