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female
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30-35,
*ctober Janphen
writes:I need some advice! I am thai girl and that guy is american.First, i'll tell you how my story began.I met this guy (i'll call him yellow) at the pub. i went there with 2 friends( i'll call them pink and blue ) and he's with friend( i'll call his friend as black). at that night he stare at me and i stare back we stare to each other till the pub is close .. and finally his friend came up to me and introduced himself and then yellow came to introduced himself to me too .. they ask me a few questions and ask me to go another pub together so i said yes.when we went to another pub i sit near yellow and pink sit near black so i mostly talk with yellow .. we start to drunk and as the pub is very noisy so we have to get closer and closer. he said he likes me but i didnt say anything. i can feel that he tried to kiss me but i refused to kiss him and i also said i'm not looking for sex and he said he's not looking for sex either we talk alot and i'm so happy. after that pub we went to their hotel to have some food at the restuarant .. at that moment i can feel that he looks change with no reason after we finished eat.. i can see that pink and black they both clicked each other so black ask for our email and telophone no.next day black call us to go for movie i know black wants to see pink but unfortunately pink is not good in english so i must be the one who can communicate with them and we said yes .,so i have a chance to met yellow again..but this time he looks quiet dont say hi to me dont talk to me .. but when we get into the movie he decided to sit next to me but he keep quiet till the movie's end ..i really dont understand why but when i think about first time we met i refused to kiss him and i act like i dont interest in him .. after movie we go find sth to eat at subway .. he start talking again and talk a lot but when he talk he look at everyone except me .. dont know why ..when i back home i talk with black on MSN so i decided to ask black that what yellow think about me and black said yellow like me but it seems like i push him away .. but i didnt !! i just dont want him to think that i am easy !last day before they back to USA black asked us to go have dinner of coz i said yes coz i know pink couldn't communicate with them ( i need to be translator ) also i wanted to make another chance to start over with yellow and explain to him that i didnt mean to ignore him but he refused to join us for dinner .. so we decided to pick him up at the hotel after dinner ..and after that we go to bowling ..and he act the same ignore me dont say hi he talks a lot but not to me ..he decided to leave early coz he have to pack his stuff . and that moment i felt like i'm going to explode ..and i'm so angry i ask him to stay longer but he said he can't .. so i said Ok .. we say good bye and go home ..after they back to USA ..Black added me on facebook .. so thats make yellow is my mutual friendmy friend suggest me to add him first coz i am the one who make mistake..so i added himi have a chane to talk to him via facebook chat but when i say hi ..he say hi back ..then he suddenly offline .. after that i never get online on facebook again ..coz i dont want to see him ..1 month later pink go to study in USA and she decided to stay with black ..now they are a couple .. i always talk with black and pink on skype and always ask them about yellow ..they said they used to ask him about me .. he said " we can be friend " ... ireally hurt when i hear this .. i think i shouldnt do that at the first place ..i shouldn't ignore him .. Last .. Now its been 8 month already but i still think about him all the time .. and the good news is black and yellow will come to Thailand soon on november .. I need to start over with him again but i dont know what i should do .. i dont want to make it strange when we meet again ..and also i dont know what he think about me .. Please i dont want to ruin it again .. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2011): Well honestly I think he was hurt (mainly his ego) with your rejection. I also think he was looking for a one night stand and when you did not give him that, he just didn't want to be bothered. Also, it's very unusual to be obsessed w a person for 8 months that u only met a couple of times. What is the fascination w this guy? You sound young and inexperienced. Be careful, ESP w American or British men. Being that ur Asian a lot of guys like the submissiveness of women in ur culture which sets them up to heartbreak and abuse. Just let this one go. He probably has a woman in the states.
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