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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I am a sophomore in highschool. Last week my crush messaged me on facebook asking for our hw and then said btw what's your number. We texted till 2 am on sat night and he kept trying to figure out who I liked. Eventually I told him and he said he liked me too. We hung out later in the week and after talking about past experiences, I said I'm really not wanting to try the friends with benfits thing again. To which he said even if he did that with a irl he still wouldnt like sleep around with other girls. So after some more talkin he was said "Do you like want to have like a thing?" and I said sure. We then kissed, nothing else. I saw him later at a party he was helping dj at (no alcohol/ drus) and we snuck off to make out again) After kissing for a little while he said "I'm guessing you want to take this slow?" And i sai "Yeah is that ok?" And he said it's fine. I'm jst confused because i dont't know what he mean by having a thing, seeing he knows f**k buddies aren't an option. Also his friends know something is going on. ( they always tell him to turn around when im there, lettin him leave during his shift, ect.) I don't know i i should talk to him an just ask him what we are or let thing flow and do thier own thing. Help Please!!!
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reader, Sammia  +, writes (18 June 2012):
This is a very common thing that happens, I don't think you should have told him about your experience of friends with benefits that could give him the idea that if he gets close enough to you he could change your mind. Go out on dates with him for a while don't go passed the kissing stage until you are absolutely sure of intentions. It's hard sometimes to read a person, be careful don't let yourself be used. By all means have fun with this lad but just be aware he could be using you for sex. The main thing that concerned me was hims saying if you were to do the whole friends with benefit thing he wouldn't go with anyone else!!! (alarm bells for me). Good luck and be careful and if you do decide to go further with him BE SAFE! x
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