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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have to ask an advice! I met this boy when i was in exchange. we were both exchange students and the first days of orientation we were very close and held hands and everything...but then it ended cause we were busy and lived far away from each other. we met few times during the year and he always called me and texted me... we went movies and eat together and shopping. and we had lots of fun together. but then the year ended and we went back to our coutries but we are still sending messages and we skype sometimes. he always smiles and is happy and teases me. I seriously like this boy but i dont know how to tell it? If he doesnt feel like i do ?? He lives in another country...i feel really confused what should i do??? Thank you
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (21 June 2012):
 I don't want to sound insensitive, but you do realize you live in different countries, right? I think it is a good thing that you made a connection with another exchange student, but accept the situation for what it is. You may have a good friend you can talk with on Skype and you can text, but there is not much you can do beyond that. Perhaps one of you could visit the other on occasion. I am just not sure how you could seriously like someone after only a few days of orientation. You will torture yourself beyond belief if you put a lot of faith in growing some kind of committed relationship with this boy online. You must also be very careful with this as it is not a good way to "date" someone. I would advise you to continue to Skype and text one another and enjoy what you have in that sense.
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