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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I want to know whether I've been sexually harrassed. I don't think it counts because I sort of gave consent, I'm annoyed with myself because I didn't have the confidence to tell the guy that I didn't want him to touch me, so I don't think it counts. What can I do to make myself stronger in these sort of situations? I don't seem to be able to say no because It's embarrassing.
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reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (10 April 2007):
 Ways to say no:
-"I am too high maintainance for you, sorry luv"
-"Sorry your not my type"
-"Ah ah look but dont touch"
By saying no in these ways it makes him the embarrased 1 and not you! I am the same age as you and it works for me all the time he will probably just put his head down and walk away.
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female
reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (10 April 2007):
Ways to say no:
-"I am too high maintainance for you, sorry luv"
-"Sorry your not my type"
-"Ah ah look but dont touch"
By saying no in these ways it makes him the embarrased 1 and not you! I am the same age as you and it works for me all the time he will probably just put his head down and walk away.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (10 April 2007):
 It's not embarassing to have enough respect for yourself to just say no when you're uncomfortable. I don't think you can blame anyone for sexually harassing you if you didn't say no because men are not mind readers and are a lot less emotionally aware in these situations than women. Practise saying no, it's easy.
CD
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