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writes:I have been friends on and off with a girl for 2 years and a half years, but lately we have got closer since my break-up with my ex; she has been helping me through it, talking on the phone, texting, but recetly I have started to develop feelings for her. She kept telling me she didn't have feelings for me; and then, I seemed to ignore that, and told 2 people. It somehow got back to her, that I talked about her, and she rang me and gave me a mouthful. I texted her and asked if we could still be friends, she said yes, but Saturday and Sunday I kept texting her to apologise - I think she is getting freaked out by all the texts. Now she seems to be ignoring me. I think deep down she still wants to be friends. What shall I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe just rung me, it turned out I was beng paranoid; she said she's been quite stresssed, and she's been talkng to a lad who's been trying to kill himself (a bit like she talked to me when I broke up with my ex). She also said that she couldn't be with everybody all of the time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know she's not interested in me, she told me that, the things that annoyed her were the texts and the fact that I (apparently) told people that we were an item
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reader, AskEve +, writes (10 April 2007):
 Then change things NOW. Remain strong and assertive and give her the space she needs... ALL the space she needs. If she's interested in you then let HER make the first move, until then you need to lie low or she'll only see your advances as a nuisance again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really regret doing this, as we used to flirt and talk on the phone every night and when I first broke up with my ex, she was the only person I could talk and cry to
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reader, AskEve +, writes (10 April 2007):
The reason she is ignoring you is because you're making a nuisance of yourself by texting her too much. You're becoming a proverbial pain in the butt to her (to put it bluntly.) You say you told 2 people... you told them what???
Eve
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