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writes:i an 18 and i have a 15 year old girlfriend. i cheated on her with a 14 year old. this isnt the first time this has happened. i dont really feel bad about it either. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (15 May 2007):
Well, as you 18 i would advise that you STOP SHAGGING UNDERAGE GIRLS. Now your 18 you can get done for it. Just because these kids consented doesnt mean you cant get into trouble. I would break up with your girlfriend so you can do it with whoever you like. This girl doesnt deserve to end up with a creep like you. Your probly one of her first real relationship and she probly thinks you love her. Just break up with her, no young girl deserves to be treated like this, you saddo.
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reader, stina +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Anonymous,
What should you do? Break up with your girlfriend so you can date around instead of be in an exclusive relationship. You're obviously not ready for one. And hey - that's not a bad thing, but it is if you keep playing this girl. Have some decency and give her the option to see other people, too. Not only will you be doing her a favor, but you won't get the rep of being an assh*le and/or player, liar, jerk, user, etc. You get the idea. Breaking up with her would save the both of you a lot of problems.
BTW - you should be careful when getting it on with minors. I'm not sure how far you go, but this is dangerous territory - you could potentially end up in jail if it goes too far. Please keep that in mind.
Take care.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (15 May 2007):
 Scary,
That you think cheating is the problem, but having sex with a 14 year old is not.
I think you put this on here to wind people up. If you did you are sick anyway. Dont you think this site is for people who are heart broken, and need help.
GROW UP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): you obviously arent ready or mature enough to be in a seriouse relationship stop hurting this child and break up with her you obviously dont love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): I don't know what kind of morals or values you have, but I say commit yourself, pedofile!! 18 yr olds are ADULTS. Younger than that is children! Adults should not sleep with children. Besides, what would an adult possibly have in common with a 14 yr old? Maybe I dont wanna know. But... beware: many parents of girls who are either 14, have been 14, or will be 14.... would be mighty interested in having a chat with you outside!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 May 2007):
 You don't feel bad about it, you keep cheating on this girl, why are you keeping the 15 year old around? As a backup? This is DEFINITELY not fair to her, she really ought to be dating someone who can give his whole heart and full devotion to her. Do what's right here, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007): be a real man and break up with your girlfriend. it is completely obvious that you do not love her as evidenced by your cheating not only now but in the past. let her go and give her the opportunity of finding a person that is really worthy of her time!
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