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anonymous
writes:Dear friend, I feel quite sad in this two weeks, Iam craying every single moment , guess why!!It.s have been 5 months that I am in relationship with a lovely man, I think now clearly I am in love with him, but In last two weeks I think I made a big mistake, while I was speaking with him in MSN I also chated with him in a same time as another girl just to find out is he really love me or cheating me, he always told me trust me , trust me , but he sometimes made other friends and talk in a chat in facebook but not very often because of my suspicion, and while he talked to me in msn I see him that he isnt responding my question very well, because in a meanwhile he was chating with me in other adress, ok, he knowed that I was taking with him, but he wanted to talk with camera , and when a strat camera he wasnt there but only me , than he toldme I didnt exeptet this from you ,you didnt trust me , etc, I crayed a lot and i stll cry, today I met him and talked with him , but he want time to forget this, I aasked him does he love me anymore , he didnt answered me , i dosent write me as before sms , like we had one word that always call each other ,,eye'' heart , my soul , but now dosent write me just how are you , I always carry for him ,give him a many , because he dosent work, pay the trip to come to me , also phone, I am sad and I am depresed , what to do I love him, Also he loved me very much , we live long distance from each other , what to do I beg him to forgive me , I love him so much , what to do not lusing him .....I need the answere.....I cant sleep ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2012): It is a little difficult to understand your question, but if I understand you correctly, it sounds like you caught him out. Once he got caught, he wasn't interested any more. You are lucky you have gotten out now and not later. If he REALLY did care about you, he would want to work at helping you to trust him. People don't just GET our trust, they have to earn it. He got CAUGHT being dishonest to you, then turned it around like you had done something wrong. Maybe you had, but so did he. You still want to be with him, and he doesn't care. Let him go. Your intuition was looking after you. You were RIGHT about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (27 April 2012):
 I think you did the right thing if you were suspicious. I would be suspicious to if a man who wasnt working accepted money from me to visit, or for the telephone.
I think this man knows you were suspicious of him, and he is a rogue, and trying to make you feel this is your fault somehow.
This man is manipulating you, dont fall for his sly ways, he is very clever, do some research about red flags and online dating, you will probably find there were many red flags here, but you didnt see them.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (27 April 2012):
 Do you know for certain that he was chatting with other women online, or are you just guessing? Is it possible he was just chatting with friends? Maybe with male friends? Do you know why he was not on the camera?
I am not certain how you tested him, but from what I read, it looks like you are finding evidence where there is none.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2012): It's very hard to understand what you are saying, sorry
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