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writes: dear cupid,soo, there's this guy at work (the college newspaper)that i've kind of taken a liking to. i'm not sure whether or not he knows how i feel--i haven't actually told him, buuut sometimes, people can just figure that sort of thing out for themselves, you know? hahaa...anyways...what i ALSO don't know is how HE feels about ME. see, he's kind of been giving me mixed signals these past few weeks. at work, rather than start on a project on his own or help one of his friends, he always voluntarily helps me on whatever i'm working on. and he's constantly touching me--hugging me, putting me in a (playful) headlock, resting his knee up against mine when we're sitting at the computer, laying his head on my shoulder...he's even massaged my shoulders from time to time. aaand now for the mixed part of the signals. he has my cell phone number (and he has it MEMORIZED, by the way), but we never talk outside of work (he's only texted me once).my question is, what should i conclude from all of this? only one of our co-workers knows about my feelings for him (and he's sworn to secrecy about it...and if you knew this guy, you would agree with me when i say that i honestly don't think he's squealed to the guy i like), and he seems to think that, "he looks interested in you if he feels the need to be touching you all the time." do you think he's right, and this guy really IS interested in me? how should i go about finding out whether or not he is? any help is greatly appreciated. ")
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 Well you don't know how he feels about you, and vice versa. Why not give him a little text and ask him would he like to go out with you for a drink some night, just get to know him a little better outside of work, flirt with him and show him you are interested and see how things go from there.
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