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*allenangelwithabrokenheart
writes:Hi well I dont know where to start.Im in love with my fiance very much.We live together.But for the last 5 months we have been like friends.No sexual contact,2 kisses a day.I told him i was highly sexed when we met.we were ok.but then after we moved in it started to go.It was like he was content had all he wanted and i was company.He is 48 im 44.Last week he told me he didnt find my body attractive,He couildnt get turned on by me i am too fat.I am size 20 ive had 5 kids (not too him)I am big ive tried to diet but the more he is like this the more it hurts.he thinks we are like a normal couple.I dont know what to do.Do i stay and put up with no sexual contact.I need the passion and loving.He says he loves me and im beautifull so whats his problem.Im me he knew that when we met I am the same person now as I was then.Can anyone give me advise on what to do.Please.
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reader, fallenangelwithabrokenheart +, writes (9 May 2008):
fallenangelwithabrokenheart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you who ever gave some advice.I didnt slap him cause I was too upset.He is ok company but i am 43 Im not ready to give up on passion.Like you said whats holding me back I have no kids at home now,He dont like going out to pubs.He likes his pc and DVDs and Tv.If he paid me a little attention it wouldnt be too bad,Thanks Im doing alot of thinking,.I know one thing I wont be getting married thats for sure.Going to have good think over weekend.will update as soon as I know what Im doing.Thanks again.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 May 2008):
You have to ask yourself if he is worth staying with in other ways.
He was nice enough to tell you you are too fat to turn him on - I'd have slapped him and walked out at this point.
He seems to be content to have a little wife at home for company, but if you want more then why settle for that?
You don't have kids together so you are free to chose what to do.
What is most important to you, having someone around, or being single but maybe finding a guy who will keep you satisfied and love you just as much?
You need to figure this out soon if you are getting married.
Good Luck!! xx
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