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writes:Hello everyone, I'm not very confident in writing this but really need advice. Anyway hear it goes, I lost my virginity last Friday to my b/f and hardly bled after more like a spot more then anything, then monday again hardly anything, but then last night after doing it again it hurt more then before but thought nothing of it but after getting home I noticed loads of blood in my underwear and I mean a lot a bit like a period I guess, anyway I put a pad on but this morning had no more blood or nothing on my pad. What I need advice on is should it happen after the 3rd time of sex as I thought it was only the first time you would bleed?Also should you bleed that heavy?Also i feel very wet down below today is that normal as well?Sorry for all the questions, I've no one else to talk to cheers x
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reader, gianostallion  +, writes (14 February 2010):
It happened to my girlfriend. She was married for 10 years and they had a child (through ceserian). After she got divorced and then we were together with her. She bled and it was not her period. And I think I got her last remaining part of her hymen.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Normal.
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reader, Shamandalie  +, writes (10 March 2008):
I remember I bled a lot the first time and then the second and third (which were about 2 weeks after the first). It's perfectly normal and healthy as well as the pain.
You should see your doctor anyway, just for advice, control and information.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 March 2008):
 These are perfectly normal symptoms. What you should do now is refrain from intercourse for at least a few days, preferably a week to 10 days, which will allow you to heal. Your hymen was probably broken the first time, at least partially, and perhaps more the second. The third possibly irritated the wound before it could heal. Consider a visit to your gynecologist if problems develop or to put your mind at ease.
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 March 2008):
 HEY!!
Yea thats normal but if you have anymore problems, its best just to see your GP :)
Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
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reader, red1982 +, writes (6 March 2008):
This sound the same as my experiences with my first boyfriend. The first time was not that painful (it seemed it at the time but compared to the second time....)
The second time I bled very heavily during intercourse and then bled for a couple of days.
My theory behind it is that the first time he did not penetrate me enough to break my hymen - he said at the time I was really tight. But the second time he was able to. I didn't bleed the third time, but it was still painful for the next few times before it was pleasurable for me.
If you keep bleeding after sex I would go to see your GP. But I think you will be fine. And it will get better eventually. Make sure that you have a lot of foreplay first and use a lubricant as this will help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Hunny
Yes it can be normal to bleed after your first sexual experience, I would go and get a check up be honest with you doc and pop your mind at rest hunny...
Im sending you a link
http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm
I hope this helps sweetheart TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, nicola_r +, writes (6 March 2008):
I know i bled a lot after my first time, it was all over the bed sheet. Maybe the first and second time you had sex your boyfriend didn't penetrate you properly and only did the third time? i'm not an expect but if you're not in any pain now and the bleeding has stopped you're probably fine. Try it again it shouldn't be painful this time but remember to relax. If it still hurts really bad or you bleed anymore maybe you should go see a doctor.The wet is probably just discharge if 'colourless and odourless.If you wanna talk about anything else don't hestitate to get in touch xx
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