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*arahCa1989
writes:Im so confussed on what to do. The problems is my boyfriend is a super against me drinking, cause i got drunk like last month and he got super ticked off! so now anytime im not with him and im with other people he gets worried and starts to freak out! i havent drank in a month! another problem is he is way to needy! he is always texting me and calling me! i tell him i busy and stuff but he just goes back at it like a day later! another problem is i can't stand his friends! he is making me be nice when they are so rude and mean to me! he is also making me be nice to this girl who tried to finger me! i just can't believe it that he is making me do this! i have tried talking to him about this but we just end up in a fight and i dont want to either! so i need help on what to do please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): write him a letter and ask him to change for your relationship explain to him that you have made some changes and he needs to do the same you have been patient about this and if things dont improve then you will be forced to leave read the letter to him and ask him not to comment until the end then tell him to think about it and talk about it later this is the best way to get it through to him that you cant stand it. :) good luck
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reader, loveguru23 +, writes (11 July 2008):
It sounds like you're pretty upset about this. Try this exercise:
Make a list of pro's and con's in your relationship. It seems like you listed alot of negative stuff in your relationship...but what about the positives?
Figure out with everything that's going on...whether you would like to really stay with him or not.
Daniel Amis Author & Relationship Coach
www.relationshipadvice4you.com
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reader, accused +, writes (11 July 2008):
 SarahCa1989.... No one MAKES us do anything! We make our own decisions... Therefore your not a victim, but a volunteer.... If your BF treats you this way, then you should try to have a rational conversation with him and let him know how his actions makes you feel. I seen you wrote that you've tried to talk to him but end up fighting.... Do you know why people argue, yell, & fight? Its because we can't make the other person understand us! With this being said; try and talk to your BF again and if it ends up in a fight, then maybe you should take some time off from him. No one can take your respect, you have to give them that.... You deserve better...... Keep me posted best of luck
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