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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm in class with this guy and just after Christmas we were on the verge of becoming an official item rather than just kinda dating. Then suddenly he stopped speaking to me all together and announced mote or less the same day he was officially with another girl. Naturally I felt awful and really didn't want to speak to him either. Though things have moved on and I am speaking to him but I'm so confused by the messages he's sending out. He's not with this girl anymore btw. Just some things he says and the way he acts make it seem like hes interested in me he makes comments about meeting up and asking me what my dream date would be (etc general stuff you don't say to someone whose just a friend). So I plucked up the courage to give him anoter shot and confront him about things and he seemed really genuine to my face. I later found out he was telling the girl he used to be with that he didn't want me in slightest and it would always be her. Even after saying this he still acts the same as before, I know this could just be general chit chat but just the way he looks and sounds when he says it just makes me think it's not. To further complicate things on the days when he isn't doing this he acts absolutely terrified of me and like a shy little boy talking to his strictest teacher. I don't really have any feelings for him anymore (although I can't say for certain) but I can't understand what the hell is going on and what his problem is with telling me things as they are ? Also why does he flip his attitude from this really confident guy to suddenly a little boy ? I'm really confused and I'm not saying I've read any of signals right in the first place but hey
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (9 March 2012):
 Blech, the guy had a case of "the grass is greener" and when he found out the other girl wasn't what he thought she would be, he came back to you... Honey, he is going to continue this leaving you and coming back, ONLY if you let him.
Personally, I would drop him and move on.
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