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writes:So apparently, I found out that this guy who's been flirting with me (who I was actually interested in) has also been flirting with a lot of other girls. In my point of view, I think he's playing mind games with me, like he just wants me to like him. That's all. He compliments me all the time and by the way he talks to me, it looks like he knows exactly what a girl wants to hear. He's a big flirt. And when we talk he really seems like he's interested in me. But yeah, apparently I found out that 'he's not that interested'. How should I act around him? Cause he's going to be my coworker. (But not like the real professional job)
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (16 January 2014):
 I agree - be yourself. And I wouldn't flirt back though, because that is too easy a way to start getting feelings for a guy who won't return them.
Some people are flirty by nature, some are JUST nice and people mistake both for interest.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 January 2014):
 you just be yourself....
some folks like to flirt to pass the time, it does not mean they want to date you or sleep with you... it's just a time passer and personally I see it as harmless.
the issue is that folks often take it the wrong way.
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