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anonymous
writes:i need some help. i had sex for the first time about two days ago. yeah i was nervous but also very comfortable since it was with my boyfriend who i love very much, and he also helped me feel comfortable. what i dont understand it right when i started having sex, i got really light headed and out of breath, and felt like i was going to past out. we were not going fast, and he wasnt rouph. it just happened out of no where!i get monthly check ups at my drs and im very healthy. so i cant imagine why i felt this way. my bf said maybe it was just because it was my first time and it was maybe normal. so i said yeah proubley and just forgot it ever happened. so a week went by and i was ready to try again, we were in my bed and i was very comfortable and we were kissing for a while, and i felt excited and happy and i was ready! then next thing i know it was like 5 mintues in and i started getting shaky and light headed and i was really hot and felt like i was gunna past out. me and my bf are very concerned and im scared. what could be wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2013): (this is the person that wrote this)
to the person that asked me if im on birth control, im not.
& it deffinitly was not me about to reach an orgasm. because before me and my bf started having sex, i would let him finger me whenever we were in the mood,and i would reach an orgasm from that, so i know how it feels.
i just dont understand whats going on. im scared.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 July 2013):
 Sounds to me like you were approaching orgasm???
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (19 July 2013):
 I think you need to see a doctor about this.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 July 2013):
 it might be panic attacks... are you on hormonal birth control?
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reader, angel91 +, writes (19 July 2013):
Does the sex feel good for you, or is it painful?
Some people feel like they're going to pass out when they orgasm, which is normal for them. Perhaps this could be the case for you?
If you're worried, speak to your doctor about it, and they can put your mind at ease.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2013): The first couple of times I had sex I got lightheaded and dizzy from the pain and blood and thought that I might pass out. Is there a lot of pain for you? If so, that could be the problem. If not, I'm not sure sorry.
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