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writes:I am in a long distance and age difference relationship. My boyfriend is from italy he is 27 and had to return because he overstayed his visa. he left in Febuary and i was able to visit for 2 weeks in august so now we are waiting for his new passport which should be ready before Christmas, my problem is that i have found him on a website talking to girls from near where he lives and all over the world and i have recently discovered on the same website he set up a profile as a bisexual which he says that he was just bored and curious so he was playing around with it. i know that he met one of the girls on the sight because she took a picture with him which he left on his computer, she was from russia and he said he and his friend just picked her up from the airport and showed her around rome. I told him i thought this seperation might be too difficult for him and we should just become friends and he insisted that he loves and wants only me that he wants to be only with me and he wants to stay together. im very confused about the bisexual behavior i expected a little flirting with other women but this has really thrown me. i dont know what i should do can someone offer some advice?
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 Hello!
Ive got an italian boyfriend as well. I got a good deal for myself, but the majority of young italians are very flirty, not trustworthy, love sex and cant stay off it for too long. Him telling you to come to live with him in italy is just words, nothing more, you can test him by saying that you have made up your mind about coming over to italy for good and want to live with him, you will see his reaction, even if at first he will hide it, say that you have booked your flight and are coming over in 3 days, he will probably dissapear out of your sight. I am not saying that all italians are like that, but he seems to be the player type and they will say anything to get what they want. I dont think he is doing it for the visa as italians can easily enter the us getting a visa stamp already in the us airports.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshould i break it off with him? and what about the other questions i had about the bisexual chatting and he was branded curious. I have heard that 1 out of 10 straigt men are curious about having sex with other men. am i being deceived
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso you believe that he is just using me? He asked me to come there and live with him in italy if he can't com back. I know I sound naive but how do i find out for sure.if he is willing for me to be with him there and says he wants to spend ourlives together.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Are you really that age?
I'm 37 and even I can see this guy is a user.
Am I the only one?
Of course he's chatting up other women, he is 27. And wants a visa.
C xxxxxx
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