A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Any advice please??I was with my gf for 8 months and everything was perfect, we both got on so well and really loved each other.A few months ago she went back to university and i have had to move away for 18 months due to my career. Everything was initially fine but as time went on she hated not seeing me due to the distance and the thought of me not been around for a long time was too much for her so she finished the relationship. She said it was best to split as we werent going to see each other and we should still be in the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship and getting to no each other, which i agreed with. She said she really wanted to get back together once i returned and she wanted to be friends and still see each other.We were speaking for a while but i thought it was best for myself to have no contact because i was really missing her and she understood. I got a text off her a month ago saying she was back with her ex boyfriend and hoped we could still be friends and for me to stay in contact and tell her how i was going but havent heard from her since. Ever since we split i have made out that i am fine and not bothered about the situation when really im deeply annoyed and upset. I really want her back but it doesnt seem like this will ever happen now even though she intially wanted to because of her ex. If i cant have that i would eventually like to be friends.Do i carry on the no contact, do i make out that i am still fine or do i tell her how i feel? Do i delete her from facebook? Shall i just not bother with her after lieing to me?Its on my mind all the time and i am fed up of feeling down and wondered what is best to reslove this?Please advise me, thank you!
View related questions:
facebook, get back together, her ex, miss my ex, my ex, text, university Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Auntie E  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Ok here is what you asked and i am being straight with you. Ok?Do i carry on the no contact? Yes!Do i make out that i am still fine? Don't bother! Or do i tell her how i feel? No! She does not care. She's with her x but wants to keep you on just in case things don't work out with him.Do i delete her from face book? Yes - hopefully she'll get the message! She played your heart strings like a fiddle!Shall i just not bother with her after lying to me? Yes to be sure and don't bother with this sort of girl again! Understand?
A
female
reader, c_keller +, writes (31 March 2010):
Tell her how you feel. See what she has to say about it and go from there. If you really care for this women you have to at least try otherwise you may always wonder what if? If she still wants to just be friends decide if that's right for you as well.
...............................
|
