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I am 15, want to be a porn star, any suggestions?

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Question - (22 June 2010) 21 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2016)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i am 15 and i want to be a pornstar so bad any tips?

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A male reader, coolrob United States +, writes (17 November 2016):

kid your 15 go to school an play sports that shit is not cool to be wanting to be a porn star at your age and if any of your friends found out they would really make fun of you and not one girl in school would talk to you if you get a good education then you could do good in life and have stuff you worked for you can get no were in life without a education and the only thing you will get from porn is a lot of aids

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (8 July 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntWhy do you want to be a porn star?

I see you're 15... in three years you'll be legal. But, that's plenty of time to look into other things! I bet you have loads of talents and have potential for something meaningful; porn is degrading.

Furthermore, with the emergence of the internet, there are no secrets anymore! If you were to become a porn star, you might get to a point in life where you look back at your decision and regret it, because you have to worry about people finding out. I wouldn't judge anyone for it, but I would be embarrassed if I'd been a porn star and someone found out.

I say stay in school, make good grades, and then when you graduate you don't have to jump into a career or college... take a gap year, travel, do volunteer work. Do something meaningful... porn is degrading :(

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010):

don't do it you'll regret it later just don't do it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010):

Might I ask...do you want to be a gay or straight porn star?

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2010):

Miamine agony auntOh sorry, your a guy.. all the advice I gave still stands. You need to know how to handle money. Your face, skin and body must be good. Your career will last longer than most women in pornography, but it's an industry when men loose out.

Your performance is dependant on only two things. The size of your penis, and your ability to maintain an errection for a long time, and also to be able to have an errection immediately.

Like other sex workers, you will start at the bottom,, and like most actors, it's a case of "does your face and body fit", there is a lot of rejection. You need to study hard and see this as a part time job. It's woman dominated, men are more disposible and earn a lot less money.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2010):

Miamine agony auntGet yourself a good education. The sex industry is a short career, you'll need something for after you finish working there.

Eat well, exercise, drink lots of water, and save lots of money. The industy prefers women with good skin, good bodies, who dress well and know how to look good.

Also study personal finance. It's a job that demands you know how to invest money wisely, because this will be cover your sick pay, holidays, pension, and retraining when you stop and have to find other work.

Many women in porn go into business or end up directing instead. You also have to be able to socialise and work intimately with other people, you have to be able to occupy yourself usefully, as like all filming, you wait arround a lot and can get very bored.

There are many, many reputable adult magazines that do nude modeling. Contact them when you are over 18 and see if they can help you. You don't just jump into being a porn star, like every other job, you work your way up by first doing some easier job in the sex industry.

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A male reader, Kama New Zealand +, writes (23 June 2010):

Kama agony auntDon't do it. You will be giving away the most valuable and intimate parts of yourself to strangers, and many, many men will want nothing to do with you when you do come to your senses and want to be together with someone. When you become a porn actress you are sacrificing the part of yourself for money that most (good, smart, caring) men want to fill their hearts with. Don't do it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010):

If you are thrilled about the idea of getting paid to have sex with a lot of hot chicks then I suggest you rethink your plans. It's not as glamorous as you probably think. The women, the sex, the money, the other people in the industry, etc.

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A female reader, *brea//babbby. United States +, writes (22 June 2010):

*brea//babbby. agony auntHahahahaha.

At fifteen very few girls would want their boyfriend to be so obsessed with sex that he already wants to be a porn star. I advise you to find a girl who is open to kinky things and keep her around to make fake films or something.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

Do you honestly think anyone is going to hire you for this sort of work until you are at least 18?

So, do your A-levels or whatever, and then think about it again when you are old enough that it wouldn't be illegal.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

Take into account that male porn stars get paid jack-squat unless they do the gay porn.

These are facts.

Flynn 24

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

Have you even had sex? Ever?

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (22 June 2010):

baddogbj agony auntYou don't imagine that most teenaged boys at some point think that they would like to get paid to have sex with hot looking girls?

You are going to have to wait a few years. Even if you are legally OK at 18 you don't see many 18 year old male porn stars.

So in the meantime here is some homework for you:

- first check that your dick is well up in the top 5% size wise, that means about 8 inches +

- then work on your body, as a young male porn star you are going to be expected to be lean and toned. Get that six pack going.

- for the third step, once you've hit 16, you'll need a few other people to help you as you'll need to practice having sex in a room full of people most of whom will be fully dressed and will be strangers to you. You'll need to work on keeping your erection for an hour or more at a time (obviously filming takes much longer than what you see on the screen) and obviously you need the self control not to cum too soon when you are having sex with a hot looking girl.

- once you've mastered this you'll need to get the nack of coming just when a fat old bloke tells you to. Ideally find an overweight scout master to come and help you with this or perhaps a driving test examiner. Once you have been having sex for an hour or so have him clap his hands and say "now" and then within 10 seconds or so you'll need to be able to cum.

- in your spare time you can do a little research on how many male porn stars have had successful and satisfying careers.

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A male reader, newguy2471 Australia +, writes (22 June 2010):

My suggestion, don't

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

Wow, so I guess you want to fail at life? Chill out your not even 16

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (22 June 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntDon't.

At the very least, complete school and wait until you're 18. If you still think you want to be in porn, look for a photographer who can do (non-hardcore) nude photos of you while you continue to pursue other career options. See if you can deal with being sexualised, if you are comfortable in front of a camera, and you can deal with your friends and family knowing what you do for a living.

If, at 21, you're still good-looking and still want to enter the industry, I suppose you can get in touch with a casting agent, and at that point of time, you can ask for 'suggestions' on how to get in touch with one.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

not a good idea! dont do it! think about better things! dont ruin your life with that crap!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

yeah, dont do it. Ppl in that industry have no respect for themselves or others. Im guessing by your age that you just want to sleep with as many girls as you can, but if you become a porn star you wil never find a lifelong relationship and you will be a lonely old man. What you see in porn is not reality. A while ago there was a post on here about a lady who was in porn, and what she described sounded horrible. Plus add to that you're not even old enough to legally have sex yet. Hopefully in a few yrs that idea will sound as horrid to you as it does everyone else

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (22 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntYeah. Stay in school and don't even think about it until you're 18. You're still practically a kid! A 15 year old shouldn't be wanting that. Do you want to be having really rough anal sex? Do you enjoy being fake gang raped? Only the famous pornstars rather than just average or new porn actresses can be choosy. The lower down ones have to do things that really hurt and they have to torture their bodies. Anal and oral, sometimes from your butt to your mouth would be common. You'll have to be constantly waxed and before each scene you can't eat and have to do enemas. Not to mention the "shelf-life" of a porn star is incredibly short. It's a hard, unglamorous, not to mention sticky career choice. What made you want this?

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A male reader, ManAfterChrist United States +, writes (22 June 2010):

ManAfterChrist agony auntYou still have a long way to go before you can even think of making that decision.

I would encourage you to rethink your future, but that's not your question. If you want my advice, message me. This breaks my heart.

In Him,

Brennan.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

You should by no means want to be a porn star at 15. For one it's illegal since you're a minor, secondly you very well get an std whether or not you use a condom or not. Thirdly, do you really want people to look at you like simply an object and not a woman?

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