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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am moving away from my wife due to work for 6 months. She realizes that as a type of a male I am, it will be hard to abstain from the natural urge of sex. So she told me that if I really need to have sex I can do so as long as it does not turn into a relationship and I do not take the women as a second wife ( We are Muslim and Islam allows polygamy,permanent wife and temporary wife with a fixed contract in time and dowry.) or lie to the women that I am not married and abuse her.I really love my wife, she is my soul-mate and best friend and we have been happily married for 7 years with kids. I do not plan to use her religiously allowed permission to satisfy my urges, but I would like to know how would women react to having a temporary relationship with a guy who is married. How can I tell that a certain women is interested in having an "affair" with a married guy? Women who did get together with married man, why did you do this knowing that he is married? What are the signs that a women is interested in a married man? In SA most women cross you out once they find out you are married, what about other places?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2012): It seems like non of the people who replied read the question with attention, his wife proposed this option to him ( its not cheating), it seems he comes from a practicing Muslim background where gender relations are evaluated differently than in most hedonistic Western societies.
The signs are the same as would be if you were not married.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2012): Maybe you should just plain ask us how to destroy you marriage rather than hide behind these tactics....Be advised an affair will only cause strife in you marriage and I think you will have to learn how to exercise self control and visit you wife or have her visit as often as possible....If you really love her stay faithful...You seem more than willing to fall into temptation before it has even come your way...Really dude???...a word is enough for the wise ...don't be fooled thinking your wife will be okay with it cos she won't except maybe you could allow her do the same(bet that does'nt fell good for you to hear).
STAY AWAY FROM THE TEMPTATION OF AN AFFAIR even it is pushed in you face for free.
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female
reader, deirdre  +, writes (23 July 2012):
whatever you do, dont lie about having a wife. there is nothing more sickening and soul destroying than finding out a man you have wasted time on is married. it is a huge blow to most womens self esteem. dont do that to someone just because sex is more important to you than keeping your marriage alive.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 July 2012):
 You are offering women to let you use them. Some will play that game, but many won't.
Can't you visit your wife once a month?
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