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writes:I love it whe women dress so you can see their nipples. Thin tight material, etc. It seems that women love to show their cleavage. It's on display constantly. Why won't more women they their nipples be visible or just prominent under tight clothes ? It just seems weird that girls are all in your face with their cleavage ( enough already) but so unwilling to show the hottest part of their body. You don't even have to show it all the wayBelieve me? If there was a part o my body that drove girls crazy, I would show it all the timeI would like fir my girl to wear more nipple focused clothing. But she is too shy. How can I get her to do this?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): The short answer is that it is your gf's body and she'll do with it only what pleases her. You can't "make" her do anything.
Whilst at home my gf wears t-shirts which show her nipples. That pleases her because she is more comfortable without a bra and underclothes (it is really, really hot here). But the staring of men when she goes out does not make her comfortable, so she puts things on as she leaves the house. So in a Home Goal of Irony, it's men who are preoccupied with women's nipples under their clothes (like your good self) who ensure that women's nipples are rarely seen under their clothes.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Because culturally, cleavage is okay, up to a point, but showing nipples is considered too revealing.
Think about all the kids out there who would get eyefuls of what our culture has collectively determined to be too sexual imagery. There's enough pressure on them to be sexual and sexy and show off their bodies as it is.
I for one do not want your girlfriend's nipples on display as I go on about my day doing errands. There's enough cleavage on display as it is!
Why not respect her choice to dress as modestly as she chooses? Not all women want to be exhibitionists.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (20 September 2010):
 This question just begs for some ribbing. Of course Eyes got in a good jab, and well done.
The honest answer is that You shouldn't try to convince her to dress in a way she finds too revealing in public. First she won't be comfortable, and second, for your own pleasure, you are lowering her status to all of your acquaintances. She doesn't want your friends to think that she is easy, she wants their respect. Now if she wants to lose a layer in private with you that is just fine. Then she can enjoy being sexy for you without the risks.
Now for my turn at the roast:
About that part of your body that drives the girls crazy, it isn't the calluses on your knuckles from dragging them as you walk.
FA
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Because seeing nipples is very intimate. We wear clothes because we don't want to be walking sex objects. It's very uncomfortable to be stared at like that, and when our nipples are at "full attention" it's very difficult to get men to look at your face. We already wear super tight low-cut clothes, we don't need to add nipple exposure in. Once men start walking around showing off their sexy abs and muscles, then we'll talk. Save the nipples for the bedroom. Plus if you always see them everywhere, the excitement is going to wear off. When she does take off her shirt for you, it will be kind of an anti-climax. My boyfriend has the same thing as you (wishes I'd never wear a bra) so we compromise. If it's convenient I don't wear a bra around the house, but in public I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2010): It's very slutty to show your nipples in an outfit
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 September 2010):
 Lower your air conditioning, only take her to ice skating rinks, only shop in the frozen food section, and move as far north as you can. That's all I got for you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 September 2010):
 You can't, and you shouldn't force her to. Just because you find nipples super sexy, that doesn't mean that everyone does. A lot of why you don't see nipples through clothing has to do with bras and such. Women also tend to be very self conscious of their nipples, and tend to not want them showing.
I'm wondering what "nipple focused clothing" is anyway. I don't know if I've seen any of this in my lifetime.
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