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*rincessSmithee
writes:I went to the cinema with this guy last Monday, we had a great time. He text me the same night saying how good it was and suggested going out again. i text back agreeing.The next day he seemed less flirty online and I mentioned about going out again and he said he'd text me asap because he don't know what he's got planned yet.Since then he was different, still spoke to me, but didn't speak to me first and didn't put as many xs online, and as less flirty.Since Sunday though, he's back to how he was, being flirty and talkative with me. And I feel like that spark is back (yano where you feel all fuzzy iniside xD )But he hasnt mentioned going out again or hanging out?, hes a nice guy, i highly doubt hes chatting up other girls too.How do I get to hang out with him without being too pushy?When we went out for the first time, he mentioned it first but I had to mention it again and arrange when we should go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): just be straight up and ask when your gonna meet again....
you wont find out if he reeally wants to unless you ask
hes probably really into you and hoping youll initiate the next meeting and that will confirm you really like him for him...
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reader, cupid77  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 He might not be the planning type. I would suggest looking up movies and asking if he wants to go to a specific movie at a specific time, or ask if he'd like to go to a specific resturant a specific evening... He might have the intention of going with you but just doesn't know what to do. Good Luck!
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reader, Plutonious +, writes (26 February 2009):
You sound persistant on this one. you should just let it come naturally. go with the flow. and if you decide to call him or contact him in anyway to ask, I's suggest over the phone so that he could hear you ask him out again instead of IMing him about it?
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (26 February 2009):
 Just ask him if he still wants to go and your not being pushy your just wondering cause he asked you first. good luck
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reader, cupids_friend +, writes (26 February 2009):
Just come out and ask him when can yall go out again tell gume that you like his company and you have fun with him and would like to go out again
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