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He hasn't replied, should I start looking elsewhere?

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Question - (26 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2009)
A male Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Basically went on the first date, Couldn't of gone any better, We chatted for 2.5hrs then we walked for a bit and found a place to sit there we kissed for 2.5 hrs, Then i walked her to her car holding hands, Text her on Monday to see what she is doing she said she was free that night but i was busy so i asked her when she was free she said maybe Thursday but Friday she was good, I messages her on Thursday and she hasn't replied, I Dont know if i should start looking again.

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A female reader, Plutonious United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

HMMM. I would have to say that you should just give it some time. perhaps, she is busy with work, school, family etc...

if it's just thursday then wait until tomorrow.

call her friday afternoon and ask. dont text. she should hear you ask personally to go out again.

hope that helps.

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A male reader, cupids_friend United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

Okay sometime messages fail to reach the persone make shure that she has the message call her but don't bother her to much don't want to seem desperate just call her and ask if she got your text or just ask her out thursday I really hope this helps if not let me know

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A female reader, PrincessSmithee Ireland +, writes (26 February 2009):

PrincessSmithee agony auntthats quite strange.

i say ring her, or text her again just saying 'hey how are you? i text you on thursday, i dont know if you revicied it, it would be nice to see you again

but i suggest ringing her, if she doesnt pick up , and then doesnt call you back either later that day or the next day, start looking else where

..if she doesnt text back either within a day or two.

Just look else where, i know the feeling. I went ona date with this guy , it was so dam good. We got on greeat, lots in common, had a fun time. He even metioned going out again, and text me back as soon as i got home to ask if i wanna go out again soon.

And then he chnaged :/ seemed less flirty, didnt leave as many xs ? i dont understand

Hes back to being flirty now and stuff, but its just driving me mad i dont know where i stand.

but yeah thats my little story of these situtation :(

i just suggest ringing her.

if she doesnt pick up and doesnt ring back.

Then it pretty much says it all.

but i guess you could text her about 3 days later, telling her how you feel.

Not pouring the heart out but just the basics lol

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A male reader, nichiren United States +, writes (26 February 2009):

nichiren agony auntgive her a little bit of time.

she may be busy.

give it about another couple of weeks giving her one or two calls or texts a week.

if she still does not reply let it go.

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