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writes:Hey everyone. So I've had a bf since last year, we just started having sex a few months ago, in our past we both only have 1 previous partner. We used condoms, I'm on the pill, all is good right? Well shortly after we started doing that there were 2 occasions where we did not use a condom, that's it--2. I got my yearly pap test done not all that long ago, they called me saying I had chylamydia. Now after I broke up with my ex I got tested to make sure he didnt give me anything cuz I think he lied to me about a lot of stuff, and I was clean. So I know it came from MY current bf. Based on the timeframe we figured he has had it for about 10months, me probably 2 months (based on those 2 unprotected times). We both got treated and are being retested next week.The problem? I already have polycystic ovaries, and doctors suspect I also have endometriosis (aka 2 major causes of infertility)..does anyone know how long it takes for chylamydia to turn into Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (a 3rd cause of infertility?). I am just really afraid that I may have developed that too...I had it for 2 months and had no clue, and now after treatment I am getting some bad cramps at times other than my period, still have discharge etc.I found some info online, but again couldn't find how long it takes for an STD to cause PID? If my boyfriend has had it for 10months, what might be the effects on his reproductive system? Also if it turns out that I have all 3 of these infertility causers, do you think when I want to have a baby I just even bother just trying naturally or go right to a specialist? (My doctor said to come to him for fertilty treatments whenever I decide I want to get pregnant--that was with the diagnosis of polycystic ovaries, not even the other 2 possibilities on top). Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'd like to thank everyone for your answers. I can't get in til next Wed. apparently to get retested. I will be sure to ask then if they can check me for the PID. I finally told my bf that I'm terrified if I have this because it'll down my odds even more. But I hope I can be one of those miracle cases perhaps. My bf feels horrible & has been very apologetic on the fact that he gave me the STD and supports this 100% to make sure everything is treated. At my fear of not being able to have a baby, even tho we have never had talks of kids, let alone even marriage, he was really good and said we would do whatever it takes, IVF or anything.
I'm just afraid to go get the retest cuz I'm afraid people will judge me. I used to think only dirty people got STDs and now that it's happened to me my whole insight has changed, but unfortunately I think there are still many out there. My bf and I vowed to keep this to ourselves, we are in a monogamous relationship & we arent even telling our friends or anything. It's too embarasing for one. Anyway thanks again everyone
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reader, Waiting for an angel  +, writes (26 May 2010):
Im not sure how long it takes but dont wait until it turns into a pelvic infection, if the first treatment doesnt work the first time you have to go in and get more medication. Also you have go a week without sex and make sure your partner does too. About getting pregnant it might be hard but get a second opinion to reassure your diagnosis and decide which would be better and more efficient. Babies are a bundle of joy & bring happiness to your life. Goodluck:)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 May 2010):
Realistically, you'd need to speak to your doctor about it. A lot of the time, this kind of infections can have different time limits. For someone who is very unhealthy and unhygienic, this is the sort of thing that can spread quickly. But for someone who is healthy, you'll find that this kind of infection takes longer to take effect. Continue with your treatment, and speak to the doctor about your worries. As for your boyfriend, he also needs to continue with treatment.
This STD tends to have more of an effect on women than men. So your boyfriend will hopefully be all right.
Meanwhile, as I say, speak to the doctor and talk to him.
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reader, cnith +, writes (26 May 2010):
 I don't know about the PID but I'll put your soul to rest on the other stuff.
I had a friend who was told she'd NEVER have babies because of your situation. Endometreosis and cystic ovaries back in like 1992, I forget exactly.
Fast forward to 2010 and three kids later.
Believe me, nothing's impossible. Oh, and she didn't do fertility treatments. You can imagine her shock at the first baby, which wasn't planned. ;)
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