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Are these normal symptoms of being pregnant?

Q.   is it normal to be very tired after a day of work and school like more than usual while pregnant? is it normal to throw up after eating something not everything just sertain things while pregnant? ...

A.   22 August 2010: its not necessarily a symptom of pregnancy but its possible. the vommiting can be related to morning sickness if indeed you are pregant. good luck to you get a pregnancy test a baby is a wonderful experience and its all worth it.... (read in full...)

Ways to move on from an ex and be happy?

Q.   Hello, My name is Andrea I am 20 yrs old and currently feeling deppressed. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for almost 2yrs (On October) And recently broke up 3 weeks ago this is my story. We have been on and off. He is in Canada because of work, I'm in ...

A.   22 August 2010: im sorry to say this but it seems like he doesnt care for you and you must move on im sure you'll find someone who truly loves you and wont leave you. unfortunetly we often love people that dont love us and its painful and difficult to move on but ... (read in full...)

My ex is always on my mind and I want him back!

Q.   I was with my ex boyfriend for 15 months i always used to finish him because i was scared of getting hurt because of my past relationships, he used to run back everytime an we would be fine the next day.. He used to say he would never let me go i ...

A.   22 August 2010: i couldnt have used better words or have said it better than answerfromtheheart unfortunetly im going through the same thing but i have a baby with so its so hard to let go but i know i must and u should too lets hope life brings us happiness and ... (read in full...)

I don't know how much longer I can deal with this ache in my heart...

Q.   hi so i am still struggling to move on from my ex boyfriend. we have been broken up for 8 months now. and i still cant seem to let go of him. i have dated other guys and i have kissed another guy since him but i just cant let him go. i loved my ex ...

A.   7 August 2010: well we're on the same boat im still deeply in love with the father of my 5 wk old baby girl. hes done & said dirty things yet i still find myself crying over him. i would say give it time & yes show yourself and the world how beatiful and wonderful ... (read in full...)

Help!!! Has anyone been in this situation?

Q.   Has anyone been thru really bad severe sickness during pregnancy? which put them in hospital? and even had an abortion?? would you let this stop you from trying again for another baby?...

A.   7 August 2010: well i had a miscarriage therefore i experienced a lost & you should give yourself and body time to heal. its hard to lose a baby but unfortunetly it happens and with time you'll feel better. im a single mom of a 5wk beatiful baby girl after my ... (read in full...)

Should I take him back after the baby is born?

Q.   hi everybody,i really appreciate that succesful team;and i thank you guys for your advices.i 'm pregnant and my boyfriend runs away during all that period.he has never told me if we broke up or not.i just lost his word,attention for all the 9 ...

A.   7 August 2010: girl we kinda have the same story. let me tell you from experience a man that leaves a woman pregnant with his child is not worth your time. trust me the baby wont make him change. eventually & hopefully they will understand the beauty of a baby ... (read in full...)

I am blinded by this douche bags good looks, but he's no good!!

Q.   Alright, so recently I've had this very strong urge in wanting to have sex with this guy who I have thought has been soo good looking/hot. but the thing is, he's a total douche bag! And I am no way into his douche bag ways, but he has a good ...

A.   7 August 2010: he'll only use you i mean you're saying hes full of shit why waste your time girl im sure you can find a good looking guy that can treat you good as wee... (read in full...)

How can I show him my good side?

Q.   How can you convince someone you're not as they think ? Well i have a problem the father of my baby thinks im dull, boring, that im a bitch that always asks stupid questions and that i never know what to say. Yes im not perfect but im sure im not ...

A.   26 July 2010: Thank you i do appreciate your advice and yes i do think you're right. Lets see what happens as the baby grows up.... (read in full...)

How can I talk to my doctor about this when he's male?

Q.   Hi there, this is a pretty personal question and i am a tad bit embarrassed although it must be addressed. my husband and i have been together for 6 years, and up until about a year ago i used to like intercourse to be deep and rough. we experi...

A.   18 July 2010: Doctors are professionals who are more than used to seeing and hearing cases like yours. I'm assuming you're talking about a gynecologist; their specialty requires them to see and hear the most private things about women. Dont worry about it, he'll ... (read in full...)

How do I rekindle my boyfriend's love?

Q.   Hello, i need some advice from guys preferably but girls you can help too.. Well im trying to get my current boyfriend to fall for me again. We have a 2wk old baby . We were seperated for almost 2mths towards the end of my pregnancy he tells me...

A.   15 July 2010: Thanks for the advice=)... (read in full...)

My father touched me inappropriately when I was younger and now its hurting my relationships!

Q.   When I was younger I was always scared of the dark. In result, I always ended up sleeping in my parent's bedroom. When I was 5, I soundly went to sleep in between my mom and dad only to wake up in the middle of the night with a hand down my panties. ...

A.   15 July 2010: Get some professional help so you can cope with the events in your life. A therapist will really help you, goodluck:)... (read in full...)

I'm 13, he's 20, and I want to have sex with him, but will he leave me afterwards?

Q.   Hey all im a 13 year old girl and my bf is 20 im a virgin and well this has been my first real bf we have been together 4months and well i want to take it to the next step and have sex. i know he probably will want to as well but im just a bit ...

A.   15 July 2010: You're jst a kid older man usually only want sex in such small girls like you. Dont do it ... (read in full...)

We haven't had any physical intimacy since he told me he cheated on my while I was pregnant

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me towards the end of april while on a night out with his mates. It was just a one night stand, and he told me a few days after it happened. He even went and got a STD/STI test the same week. He seemed really guilty about it, ...

A.   15 July 2010: Its hard especially w a baby involved but before you take any decision have a clear mind and tell him he needs to do anything & everything to fix what he messed up. Talk to him about what you feel, want etc goodluck & congrats w the new baby:)... (read in full...)

Ex promised to go 1/2 on baby supplies but now he doesn't want to pay!

Q.   Me and my ex are having a row about money and maintainence payments four our 4 month old son. Basically, we split when I was pregnant but he told me he would help me raise our child and pay his way. We agreed to go splits on baby stuff and he would ...

A.   15 July 2010: Well i jst had my baby 2wks ago and i think the crib, matress, changing table etc etc is an unnecessary expense you shouldn 't waste money on those things that you wont need cuz you can always change ur baby on your bed or couch. Also maternity ... (read in full...)

How long for pregnancy symptoms to show?

Q.   I had sex a few hours ago. We used no condom but i'm on the pill. He came inside me, a little, before pulling out. I'm very worried as to whether I may be pregnant. I'm due my period on saturday and I was wondering if I have falling pregnant will my ...

A.   27 June 2010: Relax , you had sex a few hrs ago, it took me 3 mts of continuous sex To get pregnant but some ppl it only takes one time. It usually takes weeks for symptoms to show but wait for your period if its late or you dont have one take a pregnancy test a ... (read in full...)

Sex Stings Me But Not Her

Q.   [Mod note: OP original title] Sometimes when I have sex with my girlfriend it stings in the head of my penis but it does not sting her. When I pull out the stinging stops and it does not sting when I pee. This does not happen every time either. ...

A.   26 June 2010: You should go to the dr it can be an std & get her checked out too!... (read in full...)

Boyfriend wants permission to have sex with another woman

Q.   My fiance of 6 yrs now told me recently that he wants to have sex with another woman. he'd prefer it with me and 'her' but he'd take 'her' solo also. he explained that its not because i'm lousy in bed but because he's just bored. I know I'm not ...

A.   26 June 2010: Wow i cant believe you're even considering this!! You're giving him permission to cheat. Its on you, as a woman i would allow this but then again everyones different.... (read in full...)

I want my family back together! Can you help?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a 2 year old son and have been living together for 2 1/2 years. For awhile it felt like we weren't in love. I moved out this past weekend and now I'm missing him like crazy. I can't stand being ...

A.   26 June 2010: Dont tell him how much you love him & that things will be different bcuz once they've lost the feelings hearing that only makes them feel uncomfortable. Instead try to get back into his life slowly but steady, you guys have a baby, therefore you ... (read in full...)

Should I keep my baby or abort it?im only 21 and already a mother.

Q.   im 21 years old and currently a freshman in college and the mother of a 6 year old daughter. i just fount out that im 10 weeks pregnant by my boyfriend of 8 months. were very much in love and planned on moving in together in 7 months. i told hi...

A.   24 June 2010: Im not trying to be mean or anything but why are you such an irresponsible person? Im sure you know about protection. Im a mother to be in 2 wks , w/ a previous miscarriage, how can you think of aborting again?? I think you're old enough to take ... (read in full...)

My question is how do I tell my dad that I used to do this without him overreacting?

Q.   How do i tell my dad that i used to cut myself? Ok i know that its bad and that i shouldnt etc, and i havent for about 4months now. Its been extremely hard as it was at the stage where i was pretty much addicted to cutting myself. I still struggle ...

A.   24 June 2010: You need to get some kind of psychological help not only for the self harm but also the abuse. Im pretty sure your dad will understand and help you in everything you need. May i ask where your mother is? Sometimes its easier to talk about this w/ ... (read in full...)

How can I begin a friendship with my ex?

Q.   I started dating a guy Id literally liked for years but I messed up big time. I was just so nervous and had just come out of a bad relationship so really didnt show him my best side. I was so scared of it going wrong that I couldnt relax and be ...

A.   22 June 2010: Its very hard to start a friendship but its not impossible. First try to get back into his life slowly & steady , by talkin to him & asking him about his day , simple stuff you know. Now that theres another person it'll be hard but good luck.... (read in full...)

Could he have a child with someone else?

Q.   hi everyone l'm 22yrs lam in a relationship with my bfd 4 2yrs now l need some advice me and my bfd we stayed for 2mnts without seeing each other but communicating over the phone.last week he came to my place then we went to his place.everything...

A.   22 June 2010: Dont have a child jst bcuz he wants one. And its weird he bought those things jst in case one day he has a child , men dont do those things unless you're already expecting a baby and even then ... Becareful its something to be worried about. And ... (read in full...)

Twisted relationship...

Q.   Twisted r/ship - I broke up with the father of my son an he got married, recently I got a new bf who has a galfriend, we visit each other but on the other side my former bf came back, not for good but he pays rent and fees, claiming that he will one ...

A.   22 June 2010: I think you should focus on your son rather than other man.... (read in full...)

I broke up because of his flirting but we're both hurting!

Q.   me and my boyfriend just broke up almost a week ago. i ended it because he was flirting to much online. since then i have been miserable and i really wanna talk to him but idk if he wants to talk to me. he talks with my brother over the phone and on ...

A.   22 June 2010: He should respect you whether its online or in person its realy the samething. If he cares for you & misses you he'll come around , dont contact him if hes serious about you he'll come around.... (read in full...)

Two year relationship, 6month baby..but how do I know that we love eachother?

Q.   How do I know if I really love him? I thought I knew even though I've been in love before and knew it didn't feel anything like last time. Figured it was just different than before. And how do I know he loves me? He tells me he does but sometim...

A.   22 June 2010: I dont think you can force someone to love you and vice - versa but i know that by spending time w/ someone , and doing things together , have fun such feelings can happen. If you loved him once at least in a romantic way im sure you can love him ... (read in full...)

I'm having his baby! Is it possible to ever be in a relationship with him again?

Q.   I've written a few posts about the similar topic but i want some advice. Im trying to recover my relationship w/ my ex, we're having a baby together in a few days, and he doesnt have any love for me left, but i want to start a friendship with him ...

A.   19 June 2010: Thank you everyone for you advice... (read in full...)

He doesn't seem to want to make time for my any more...

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months. he works at nights but whenever he has days off he gets up does what he has to and goes off with his mates. I feel he doesnt spend any time with me at all. he's a bit broke at the moment but he ...

A.   19 June 2010: You should have a serious talk with him , and let him know how you feel. Usually when one is in love we try to make time for the other person. But really talk to him and see what the future of your relationship is.... (read in full...)

Two year relationship, 6month baby..but how do I know that we love eachother?

Q.   How do I know if I really love him? I thought I knew even though I've been in love before and knew it didn't feel anything like last time. Figured it was just different than before. And how do I know he loves me? He tells me he does but sometim...

A.   19 June 2010: You should just know if you love him, if you think of him and miss him all that basic things you know. Its hard when theres a baby involved, someOne once told me we always go back to the person we had a baby with , idk if its true im having my baby ... (read in full...)

Why is he still with me?

Q.   hello, I am very sad and I need some help,I am 20 years old, I always had problems with my family so I feel kind of lonely most of the time that's why I was (and still) deeply in love with the first person who shows me some affection, which is my ...

A.   19 June 2010: Maybe he is having those problems he tells you about. Try giving him alobe time, talk to him about your problems, communication is the key.... (read in full...)

I want my family back together! Can you help?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a 2 year old son and have been living together for 2 1/2 years. For awhile it felt like we weren't in love. I moved out this past weekend and now I'm missing him like crazy. I can't stand being ...

A.   19 June 2010: If you love him, fight for your love. When you share such a special bond as a baby, i think and i hope this is true that love never dies. I love my ex as well but he doesnt love me anymore but hopefully when our daughters born he'll find his ... (read in full...)

What advice can I offer my friend?

Q.   I have a friend thats had a boyfriend and they had unprotected sex´s she think she is preguant. She told her boyfriend that it was his foult because he told her that he was being safe but he wasn´t so......she left him now she is goin to have an ...

A.   19 June 2010: Well im due w my baby in 20 days, i wouldnt recommend having an abortion bcuz a baby truly changes your life. Even if shes not with the dad she'll have her baby when she feels lonely, and sad the baby will be her reason to live. I'll tell her to ... (read in full...)

He proposed, but he's not the man of my dreams. Do I compromise, or wait for someone else?

Q.   there is a guy who proposed to me few months ago after being close for over three yrs... everythings going on well but since he is my first cousin i am afraid to proceed any further moreover he is a business man whereas i am a medical consulta...

A.   13 June 2010: Your profession should'nt keep you from loving someone. What if hes the love of your life? Are you going to risk losing him because hes not into medicine? Think about it its a tough decision but remember you dont know what you got until its gone. ... (read in full...)

What should I make of this?

Q.   Heya me and my girlfriend have been together for 5months or so and she has been off with me this week, infact didnt really want to even know me. I got rushed to hosptail on the thursday night and let out on the saturday morning. I told her i was ...

A.   13 June 2010: Seems like she doesnt care for you. The fact that you were in the hospital and she didnt care doesnt speak too good of her. If shes still interested in her ex you should probably let her go, and dont contact her; let her know that its either her ex ... (read in full...)

Something changed since I lost my virginity

Q.   I lost my virginity back in january and my discharge has never been the same. it's extremely thick and basically a solid and is sort of cottagecheese-like. when I clean it up, it is SUPER dry and uncomfortable down there. som...

A.   13 June 2010: Yup sounds like an std, you should make an appt w / your gynecologist and mention all the symptoms and discomfort you are having, if not go to another doctor. ... (read in full...)

Broke up because of distance, but family pressure is complicating things

Q.   Hey here’s just something I wanted an opinion on. You can skip down to the questions if you want but here’s the background if you want to read it. **BACKGROUND** I was in a relationship for 7 months that was semi-long distance (us being onl...

A.   7 June 2010: Ok, so i didnt read the background .... You should never be with someone for pity in the long run you'll hurt her more. I highly doubt she will kill herself if you leave her. If shes your age , shes very inmature and is a little idk but if you're ... (read in full...)

I'm worried my boyfriend may be losing interest in me!

Q.   My bf and i hadn't had sex for a month. He says its stress. We finally do and the entire time (only goes for 10min) my back is to him. I barely saw his face, there was no kissing. It was just sex in a spooning like position. Usually it goe...

A.   6 June 2010: Well it might be that he doesnt love you anymore , or he might he cheating . Men usually have since even if not in love with you so its really weird you might want to find out if hes cheating or something like that.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's phone has been broken for two weeks and he's made no other effort to contact me

Q.   Hi all...I need your opinion guys,since my boyfriend phone was broken i don't hear news from him again almost two weeks even just a text messages i wonder why what's happening to him if he don't miss me or not coz why he don't even bother to see ...

A.   6 June 2010: If he doesnt try to contact you that means he doesnt care to talk to you. Someone that loves you would do anything to talk to you bcuz they miss you and cant be without you. Seems like he doesnt care for you.... (read in full...)

My last attempt for this love.

Q.   This is a long post but my question is how do you start trusting a compulsive liar? My ex and I were together for a year and a half and 9 months of that she was pregnant with my son. I was supporting all of us so we didn't have a lot of time and ...

A.   6 June 2010: Its hard when theirs a baby involved especially because the baby will suffer not the parents. If shes worth the fight go for it if shes not than accept it and be there for your baby.... (read in full...)

Is she not texting back because she's serious about school?

Q.   hi, iam 18 and i have been liking a girl for 5 years now, and somtimes when i text she replies sweetly and sometimes do not reply at all. but she is a very studious student so i think thats the reason she is not texting me back. but what if i call ...

A.   6 June 2010: If she doesnt reply is because she doesnt want to talk to you. When you suggest in doing something & they start asking questions practically they're saying NO in a polite way :) good luck... (read in full...)

Do some women have their menstruation while pregnant?!

Q.   Hi all! :) I would just like to know.. According to teachings about the menstrual cycle.. It was clearly stated why women can not have their periods while they are pregnant and now on the internet when its asked.. People say its possible to have you...

A.   6 June 2010: Im 8 mths preggos sweetie and no you cant have a period while pregnant. Menstruation means production of eggs etc etc. You can have some bleeding during pregnancy but it shouldnt be anything like period bleeding. Yes you can vommit while pregnant , ... (read in full...)

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