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writes:I am not proud of this by any means, but I have fallen back in love with an old flame. He was my first real love and the man I lost my virginity to 19 yrs ago.. I am married. Although, the man I am married to I have not been in love with for a long time. We have been talking about divorce. So this first love of mine, loves me too, but he says de doesnt want to be a home wrecker. Which I totally get. He is also in the Army and was just deployed. I didnt get to see him before he left, which I was super hurt by.My question is, If he loves me which I know he does, can you tell me how he feels being the "other man" so to speak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually we still talk by email. I don't really think he is worried about baggage. He was the one who approached me about his feelings. We talk about our lives togther post deployment. My question was in general how does the 'other man' feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): That was his nice way of letting you down. He's not into you like you're into him and I'm sure all of your luggage and the drama that comes with it turned him off to you. I can't blame him. I wouldn't want any parts of it. Its to much work and makes a man go soft.
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