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male
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41-50,
*onderwild
writes:recently dumped my girlfriend who I'd been going out for nearly for no real reason. I was not in contact with her again until 3 weeks later when I called her to see how she was getting on. She said she was good and had not missed me. after our brief conversation when I should of said sorry but I didn’t I text o say I did miss her lots and I was sorry for the way it ended, I called her the next day but did not answer so I sent her and email and told I much I missed and loved her ect. Got a response the next day which said her feelings have changed now. Anyway sent her some flowers and she did ring me that night and we agreed to meet up the next day. She said I've left it too late and I should have got in touch sooner and that she has no feeling towards me anymore. I took it on the chin but she still wants us to go out for dinner as friends and even go on holidays. I've not called her since and I do miss her lot I agreed with her I did say some horrible things to but she won’t budge, this is the girl who wanted to marry me and move in with just over a month ago. What shall I do now I do love her and want her back
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reader, AskEve +, writes (17 February 2007):
 She's made it very clear to you that she's not interested in a romantic relationship with you any more. She already told you she didn't miss you and can only offer you friendship.
I would move on and find someone else, I really think you're hitting your head off a brick wall here and if you continue telling her how much you love her you're only going to become a nuisance to her and make a complete fool out of yourself into the bargain.
Eve
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reader, wvgirl  +, writes (17 February 2007):
 Continue to be her friend, but just friends. Don't try to push her into anything or keep telling her how much you love her. If she loved you once, she may fall in love with you again, but you're gonna have to start from square 1. Good luck.
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reader, carolanne +, writes (17 February 2007):
i dunno if u can win her back. u did end it with her and im sure if u had rang her that day and she had been upset and said he wanted to work things out u woulda thought completely differently and still not wanto be with her, but just because u saw she was gettin on with things u want her back its only a rejection thing. u are feeling everything now that she felt wen u did it to her and im sure after three weeks ul be fine too
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