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writes:I am Thirteen (Almost 14) and almost always horny. I'm ok with the fact, but not that I am horny all the time. Is there any way to keep my self from being like this so much? I know it would go down if I had sex, but I'm 13, that's not happening any time soon. Please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): Get to be 50 years old with two kids in college and lots of work stress, that might help. But, then again, it might be worse under stress for you.
It's normal, mb a lot and enjoy it and realize that it will become something that you adapt to. But, the 13-18 year period is difficult, with erections in class and in all sorts of situations that you don't want one to show up in.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 May 2011):
 You are NORMAL!
can't really do much about it...
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (18 May 2011):
 Unfortunaltely it's pretty normal. New hormones are flying around in your body in higher "doses" - It takes a while to adjust, some don't even settle until early 20's.And, sorry to burst your bubble.. sex doesn't make it go away... it can reinforce the feeling.I would agree with sports. Running works for a lot of people.
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reader, N91  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Ahh man, I'm the same but I'm 19, it doesn't help that I do weightlifting and take supplements which encourage the release of testosterone, its hard (twss) to try and suppress this feeling, so I need to masturbate quite often, as I'm not with anyone, nor having sex at the moment.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 It wouldn't go down if you had sex. Actually quite the contrary, it'd go down if you didn't have sex. That includes masturbating. It'll be horrible for a while, and then it might pass. However this is all relative and depends on the person.
Most likely it's the hormones. Teenage boys are designed to be horny. It might calm down once you get out of your teenages (sorry for the long wait).
In the meantime, try to think of unsexy things. Like old people, or kittens and rainbows.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): It's so normal, and I know it can seem frustrating, almost like a curse sometimes, but don't beat yourself up about it. As you get older your sex drive will wax and wane. One thing that really helps? Sports. Find a sport that's intensive, takes a lot of focus, and that you really love, and do it a lot. The endorphines will really help with that feeling of constant frustration, and the activity will keep your mind off sex for periods of time. You'll be ok, don't worry
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 You will have to tell us whether and how often you masturbate.
The only generic advice I can give is to try and distract yourself by taking up a hobby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): i believe its a normal thing in puberty to be horny alot.
i felt the same way in your age .. the only tip i can give you is to masturbate thats how i got over it.
youll see its just a matter of time till itll go back and youll only be horny sometimes.
so like i said .. masturbate, masturbate, masturbate
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Hello,
Well, you could masturbate and enjoy this. It is your age and growing up and moving away from being a child to adult. Don't start the sex at such a young age, just enjoy masturbating. Have fun!
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Having sex does not stop one from being horny. As matter of fact once you start having sex you will want more and more.
I would suggest you find more constructive ideas and activities to keep your mind occupied and if at all you have been indulging yourself a lot in pornography it is high time you reduced on your consumption.
Being horny is not a bad thing and it is good you don't feel bad about it but being in control of your body and mind is very important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd yes I do M.B. Just to be clear.
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