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36-40,
*ign25
writes:hi everyone. my man wants us to try different positions and its exciting but my problem is how to be on top. we've tried it but l just can't do it, l feel so heavy like my body wont move up or down and its so bad, once in he'll slide out coz l cannot control my movements. im just a size 34 and look pretty fit and sexy. how can l position myself in bed to be able to ride him? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 Try leaning forward, and as "aunt honesty" recommends, practice!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 Practice. And use your thighs. You need to use your thigh muscles to move properly, as well as small hip movements. If you move too much he will slide out and you risk bending him and hurting him. So small movements. You can lean forward closer to him, and place your hands on his chest for support, or on the bed for support.
Just take it slow. Once you get the hang of it you can go faster. And make sure your mans stays still, because if he starts to move as well you and him need to be in sync for it to work. So start off on your own, without him moving, and then later incorporate his movements as well, sloooowly. Once you get the hang of it in slow motion you can begin to go faster.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 guys love her to be o top no matter how akward or slippery it gets. don't worry about refinement just get the best and give the best. look into his eyes if he's lovin' it stop your worry.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 November 2011):
 try it reverse... with your back to him.. (called reverse cowgirl by some)...
if your knees are bad woman on top doesn't work well..
if he's larger you may need pillows under your knees....
or try side by side positions (scissors, spoons etc)
personally female on top is my least favorite position... my old knees just can't take it.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 Instead of hauling yourself up and down, try rocking your hips backwards and forwards, he's less likely to slide out of you doing this. Also, you get great clitoral stimulation and he'll feel like his penis is way up inside you! Orgasms all round!!!
But as aunt honesty says, it takes practice, so get practicing!! Good luck :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 You just need to practice, that's the only way to master it. Everyone is different, so it is just going to take you some time to get it right so keep on practising and trying different things.
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