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15 and wanting a baby!

Q.   I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...

A.   18 February 2009: Alright, since you didn't like the other answers, let me give a try. You said you don't want opinions on your boyfriend, yourself or anything like that. You said you just want to know if it was meant to be. Now, I don't know anyone who can s... (read in full...)

I hate myself and my personality, what can I do?

Q.   Im 25, I have a good job, lots of friends and Im nice looking. But I hate myself, I hate my personality I feel that people think that Im weird or boring and dont want to hang out with me. Im also quiet when I go out with friends and worry I wont ...

A.   17 February 2009: I know it might be difficult, but the only real way to feel better is through what YOU do and THINK. Not everyone is outgoing, the world needs different people to make it all balance out. I realize you want to change, but in order to change you ... (read in full...)

Do LDR relationships work?

Q.   ONE SIMPLE QUESTION: DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS (LDR) WORK? answer however you like.. yes, no, youre opinions or experiences etc. anything would be helpful! thanks...

A.   17 February 2009: Long distace relationships can work, but they are not easy. LDR take a lot of trust, communication, ability to be apart and the possibility of a future together. A LDR is something that should take foundation as being temporary. A LDR should also ... (read in full...)

We don't have anything to talk about!

Q.   ive just got a new boyfriend yesterday and weve pretty much proved we love eachother but weve realised that we dont have anything to talk about! what do i do? P.S dont give me any sexuality advice i dnt want any....

A.   17 February 2009: I'm glad to hear you're not looking for sexual advice. It's very refreshing to see that. What if you talk about sports, fashions, school, things you've noticed about each other, projects in school, teachers, food, interests. You know, just start ... (read in full...)

To scenarios to enable me to talk with her...

Q.   I really need help! I like this girl and she likes me. When we are at school she's often quiet. I want to be able to talk to her. I want to use the time and just talk. Do I walk up to her and just start talking? Would that make her comfortable?? I ...

A.   16 February 2009: That's great you're taking the initiative to try to talk to her. Sometimes people give up trying to talk to shy people, which isn't always fun. Here is a scenario: When she is eating lunch you could sit down near her with your friends and just say ... (read in full...)

I want to be with him but I'm not sure I want to marry him... yet!

Q.   hey guys reallly need help now... im 20 years old and my boyfriend is 23 which is really not to bad however we have been together offically 6 months but i think hes getting a bit to ahead of himself... he introduced me to his parents and i spent ...

A.   25 December 2008: Let him know how you feel. You're only 20 and you said you are not ready, so make sure he understands that although you care for him you need to take things slower and get life sorted out. Marriage should never be rushed, in my opinion you are ... (read in full...)

Can women and men just be friends?

Q.   does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...

A.   24 December 2008: Yes, it is possible. However, some people may find it difficult or may not be able to due to attractions or prior feelings for each other. It all depends on the individuals as well as how much control they take over their feelings, desires and ... (read in full...)

His sex drive has gone down drastically!

Q.   so my husband and i have been married since october and have been together for a lil over a year and our sex life has always been really really amazing but for the past 3 or 4 weeks maybe 5 weeks, he has not really been wanting to have sex.. it ...

A.   24 December 2008: No problem. It doesn't really matter to your question anyway. If you and your partner both agree there are doctors you can go see in order to get medical assistance with the issue. It is possible from what I know that it could be a medical issue ... (read in full...)

Am I making the right choice here?

Q.   I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I gave him my virginity, and now he wants it over and over again (I'm 15 and he is 15) and I try to tell him no but he pushes me too hard and just say yes. Am I making the right choice yes or no? ...

A.   23 December 2008: I read your added on response. Good luck leaving him. I'm glad to hear you have done what you wanted to do and have made your choice so well. It's always best to do what you want and realize what has to be done. If you have any other questions ... (read in full...)

The Nice Guy

Q.   I remember being a kid and watching those corny teen movies like “Can’t Hardly Wait” and I recall thinking that the nice guy always gets the girl and believing that is how it really is. But as I got older I came to learn that Hollywood is full of ...

A.   23 December 2008: I can't agree with you. I'd go for a nice guy over a not so nice guy any day. The nice guys seem a lot harder to find though and sometimes compromising might seem easier. As far as the friends thing, maybe the girls are afraid to go out with ... (read in full...)

His sex drive has gone down drastically!

Q.   so my husband and i have been married since october and have been together for a lil over a year and our sex life has always been really really amazing but for the past 3 or 4 weeks maybe 5 weeks, he has not really been wanting to have sex.. it ...

A.   23 December 2008: Just wondering, is your age correct? Not to be rude, I'm just wondering. ... (read in full...)

How do I go about meeting her?

Q.   This girl i've never met, but we text/email often, seen pics of her, etc. I want to meet her but dunno how to say it. It'll be so awkward. How do i go about it? And what can we do? She does live an hour away so goin for coffee isn't worth it. Lol...

A.   16 December 2008: The question you should think about is whether or not she knows you like her and want to meet her. If she does, suggest you could meet up and maybe get something to eat and see a movie or do something around town. Is there a concert or something ... (read in full...)

I'm heavy and worried it will affect my chances of asking out a girl

Q.   Help! I think I might be interested in a girl and I want to know what to do. The problem is I am very overweight and I get a feeling that being overweight and asking someone out may get a really negative reaction...you know sort of people being ...

A.   14 December 2008: Do you already know her as a friend at all or is asking her out the first step you're taking towards this girl? If you already know her it might help you feel less nervous and more comfortable. However, if you only know her from a distance you ... (read in full...)

Am I making the right choice here?

Q.   I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I gave him my virginity, and now he wants it over and over again (I'm 15 and he is 15) and I try to tell him no but he pushes me too hard and just say yes. Am I making the right choice yes or no? ...

A.   1 November 2008: Any time you have any questions feel free to ask. In answer to your second question, if you think he is cheating on you then ask him about it. If he tells you yes, then you have an answer to go from. If he tells you no, it's up to you to decide ... (read in full...)

Hoe do I figure out if he loves me when he flirts with other girls?

Q.   I realy love my boyfriend but he likes to flirt with other girls such as a jealous gal called Ruby(COW)I wish there was a way to make him notice me again. Is there a way to get him to notice me? But what i realy want to know is does he LOVE me and ...

A.   26 October 2008: If I were you I'd speak to your boyfriend in a calm way. Maybe he doesn't know you are hurt by his flirting. Some people see flirting as harmless or overly tempting. If it bothers you that much and he isn't willing to change maybe he isn't the ... (read in full...)

Girls/ Woman, When should I pop the question????

Q.   I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months now and we are in love : ) I want to propose to her because I know she's the one. I have a plan all worked out, I'm going to put 'You Are So Beautiful' on by Joe Cocker (I think that sums her up and how ...

A.   26 October 2008: If I were you I'd do it in April. That way it will be a special day just for you two and you won't have to compete with Christmas. Although Christmas is generally a family time and all that, and so she might be in the sort of mood to be proposed ... (read in full...)

He broke up with me but keep saying "right now", what does it mean? Will he want me back later on?

Q.   when he broke up with me after about 2 1/2 weeks,he said he just wants to be friends cause he needs to focus on some stuff and he feels bad he isnt spending enough time with me cause hes busy. but he kept using the words "right now" im wondering if ...

A.   26 October 2008: Maybe he says right now because he doesn't want to say forever and hurt you more. By saying for now it sounds less painful. Sort of like when someone leaves and they say see you later. See you later sounds a lot nicer than good bye forever. Like ... (read in full...)

He says I'm too old for him but I'm only a year older!

Q.   I met this guy I really like but he's an 8th grader and I'm a 9th grader. When I asked him out he said he wanted to date someone closer to his age and I'm only a year older than he is but he says he like likes me back. He's totally confused me by ...

A.   26 October 2008: Maybe he feels that by going out with someone older than he it'll be too hard for him to live up to the expectations. It might intimidate him that you're in highschool and he is not. Maybe he likes you, but knows that a reliationship with someone ... (read in full...)

Am I too old at 19 to still be living with my parents?

Q.   At 19 years old [a few months away from 20] am I right in thinking I'm far too old to still be living with my parents? I'm going to community college, but can't drive and consequently don't have a job, so there's not much hope of moving anywhere...

A.   25 October 2008: I would say no, you are not too old. The only thing I would want to do if I were older would be to make sure your parents really don't mind and that you are pushing your own load. What I mean is make sure you are living on your own under their ... (read in full...)

Am I making the right choice here?

Q.   I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I gave him my virginity, and now he wants it over and over again (I'm 15 and he is 15) and I try to tell him no but he pushes me too hard and just say yes. Am I making the right choice yes or no? ...

A.   25 October 2008: By the sounds of it even though you had sex once (maybe to try it out or by a mistake or just to do it once) you don't really want to keep having sex for the moment. You're fifteen and young and youthful, don't make things complicated. If your ... (read in full...)

Who should I choose... my best friend or my crush?

Q.   Yesterday my personal life hit a little snag. I've had a best friend named 'Brian' and crush named 'Nick' for a long time. Well, Brian told me yesterday that he's been in love with me for the past three years and then Nick came up and told me he's ...

A.   24 October 2008: Like Sazzybyface said, if you go out with your friend you may loose a friend while if you go out with a crush it could be different. Although I am tempted to say that someone of your age group could simply not date either and have more than one ... (read in full...)

He's the one I want, and it would really help me if you told me what you thought.

Q.   I was with this lad for about 2 months (june + july). i've never liked anyone this much before, honestly in a way he changed my life. everytime i get a tex on my fone i always hope its off him but it never is. i got a one tex off him the other day ...

A.   24 October 2008: It sounds like you got really nervous or maybe there is some reason you were not fully sure about getting back together with him. I don't see any harm in going out with the friends and he for the night. I wouldn't get my hopes too high, but there ... (read in full...)

Do people who get engaged young have lasting relationships?

Q.   Ok. i just got engaged to my bf of 3 years and many people have criticised this. so i want to ask you ppl do you think a relationship wer u fall in love in a young age and then get married wen they are older will last??? like we started goin...

A.   19 October 2008: This is a good question. I admire the fact that you and your boyfriend have gone out for three years. At such a young and changing age of 14-17 it isn't always easy to go out for a longer period of time. It is good to hear you are feeling you are ... (read in full...)

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