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I love reading this website and helping others. I have suffered many problems that occur on this website, i like to advise other people and share my experiences, you are not alone. It is not the end of the world like I thought it was and some people think this aswell. I am willing to help people as best I can. :)

I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?

Q.   VERY strange situation, I have asked numerous people for advice and they are all just as baffled as I am. So at my job, there is a girl who has been coming in for about 2 years now. We began talking a little over a year ago, exchanged numbers and ...

A.   3 July 2011: Become really close friends then maybe she will realise what she has with you and she doesnt with her boyfriend. Next time she texts you asking to meet you, question her about her boyfriend, ask how they r are they getting on or whatever, if she ... (read in full...)

Advice on best hair removal creams or strips? Also to have mum understand?

Q.   Hello, This isn't really a relationship question, but I would like you guys to help me with this if you can, I think women would be more helpful for this type of question :) haha I'm going on holiday in the summer with five of my friends. and ...

A.   10 May 2011: Hello no worries, I have had this problem before many people have. I used to get bullied because i have dark hair so my hair shows more. At school or p.e people used to make comments and even still make comments about my back. I told my mum and she ... (read in full...)

It's become so awkward. How am I to be around with this girl?

Q.   i liked this girl but she never liked me....i mean, we were better friends before until she found out that i liked her....all the awkwardness started. We didn't talk and she started drifting away. All of this has been going on for a year now, I have ...

A.   10 May 2011: she likes to make you jealous and make you feel worse about yourself when you are sad, right? So why don't you get a girlfriend? Make her feel jealous she will feel upset that even though she didnt like you,she liked the idea of someone admiring ... (read in full...)

It's become so awkward. How am I to be around with this girl?

Q.   i liked this girl but she never liked me....i mean, we were better friends before until she found out that i liked her....all the awkwardness started. We didn't talk and she started drifting away. All of this has been going on for a year now, I have ...

A.   10 May 2011: she likes to make you jealous and make you feel worse about yourself when you are sad, right? So why don't you get a girlfriend? Make her feel jealous she will feel upset that even though she didnt like you,she liked the idea of someone admiring ... (read in full...)

Why is my bf always talking to my friends about me?

Q.   My boyfriend is very controlling,and right now he is mad at me because I wouldn't let him come over one night because I was busy and had alot of homework.He kept demanding to come over and I said tomorrow we will hang out. Well then he contacted my ...

A.   25 April 2011: By the sounds of it he is jealous. He is trying to wind you up, right in front of you. With your bestfriends so you will no all about it and be annoyed. Just ignore him,hes doing it to spite you because he cares about you but has a bad way of ... (read in full...)

Is it worth it to keep up this long distance relationship?

Q.   I've met this guy online about 5 months ago and he was very sweet and caring. He's a couple years older than me and although we've never met he tells me he has very strong feelings for me. He lives in New York though and i live in Arizona. Its very ...

A.   25 April 2011: I think he just worries because he is not there and doesnt want to lose you. If you really love eachover you will make this work. Its up to you, how you feel for him. Only you can make this desicion, listen to your heart. best of luck anonymous711 ... (read in full...)

Is my mom finally accepting that I'm gay?

Q.   Is my mum starting to except that I'm gay after a year and a half? We didn't get along for a long time and suddenly like a switch she has changed back to her normal self, we don't argue as much and now she has started to warn me about sex... A b...

A.   25 April 2011: Maybe she has been looking into it, she wants be there for you now. She may find it hard to accept but maybe this is her way of saying, she is fine with it. I dont think being gay is an accepted thing, i accept people for who they are. But your mum ... (read in full...)

Why didn't he just ask for my phone number?

Q.   helllo everyone. fridaynight me and my friends went to a bar, had a few drinks, met new guys. so the one guy asks for my phone and puts his number on my phone. why do guys do this? why not just ask for my number? ...

A.   13 April 2011: He may be to scared, and wants you to make the first step. Best of luck Anonymous711 :D... (read in full...)

Mistress wants to move to within a mile of my house

Q.   I have been having an affair with a woman for 6 months.. She was living 300 miles away from me. I wanted to break it off but was not sure how. Well she wanted to go back to school so I convinced her to move back with her parents 1200 miles away. I ...

A.   13 April 2011: Tell her in the nicest way possible that she cant, this is a BAD idea. Your wife will suspect things, you need to sort your relationship out before you can make decisions, you need to have some space from her. Best of luck Anonymous711 :D... (read in full...)

He doesn't talk about his feelings. How do I know if he's ready for sex?

Q.   Im confused about how my bf feels. He doesnt like to talk about things like sex and used to think people were silly who did stuff but now a year and a bit on we've done everything except and the other day he even got on top of me and we were ...

A.   13 April 2011: Yes, i think so. Try it and if it doesnt work dont worry. Best of luck Anonymous711 :D... (read in full...)

My BF's mom wants to throw us out because she's mad at us and at the family!!

Q.   This is a long story, so thanks for reading. Okay I have been with my BF for about 3 years now. We live together in a trailer with our dog. I'm in college and stuff, so it's cheep and convenient for us. The trailer was bought by my BF's grandma ...

A.   13 April 2011: Okay difficult situation. I think you bf's mum is acting like this because she is angry because of the other family. She feels she has a right to that trailer because it was once hers so she is fighting to get it now that she has no money and needs ... (read in full...)

What are my chances with her?

Q.   my ex of 4weeks sent me this message by text after i sent her a text asking her how she was doing. hi hope you well. im dating someone now thats why i dont want to be in contact with you to much. sorry.i just think with everything thats happened it ...

A.   13 April 2011: Okay, she either likes you but doesnt want to admit it and is playing hard to catch, or she is trying to move on. She could be doing this out of spite maybe? to make you feel jealous so you will try and get her back. Who broke up with who? Because ... (read in full...)

Is he just a rebound guy and given his history, will he cheat on me too??

Q.   I got out Of a relationship 3 weeks ago and have started having feelings for this other guy. Two problems: first, I'm not sure if I really like him or if he's a rebound crush. Secondly he told me that he has cheated on two of his previous ...

A.   13 April 2011: You should get to know him better, become good friends with him. But play hard to catch, if he really likes you he will play hard to get you this shows that he really wants to be with you and may stay with you. Best of luck Anonymous711 :D... (read in full...)

How do I figure out whether I really can't trust him or if I'm just insecure?

Q.   I have a problem regarding my relationship- hope you can help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years,unfortunately we are in a long distance relationship. The problem is that even though we speak on the phone every night, k...

A.   13 April 2011: You feel like this because you are in a long distant relationship, right? You cant see him if he is cheating on you. But is he the time of guy who would cheat? Has he ever cheated on someone? If so then this is probably why you doubt him. You may ... (read in full...)

How to deal with online dating rejection?

Q.   I've started to try online dating. It's so frustrating for a guy. I'm not the best looking out there. I send my responses. No response. One girl messaged me. I asked to hang out with her. She says she's busy. We still talk to each other. ...

A.   12 April 2011: I agree with the other comment, scrap dating sites. I think you should go out to night clubs, or places were you will meet the perfect women of your dreams. Good luck + dont be afraid :D... (read in full...)

What can I do so it is not so painful for us?

Q.   I am 21 years old. My girl friend is 20 years old. We love each other. We decided to have sex. I was trying to penetrate my penis into her vagina. But the opening of the vagina was very small and both of us were feeling tremendous pain. I want to ...

A.   12 April 2011: Ok, a bit of a problem :/ So you love eachover and you sure you did everything right? You were both turned on and you had an erection? If not, maybe this was the problem ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but I don't know if he loves me...

Q.   I love my boyfriend but I don't know that he love me... We have been together almost a year and a half. We met in Law school. He's older, is in the middle of changing his career. We we first got together it was casual. He was in a rocky relationsh...

A.   12 April 2011: Is he really worth it? Why dont you talk to him and tell him how you are feeling? Or play him at his own game, when he slips up, see how he feels and if he is annoyed by it and tell him that is how it makes you feel but he does it everytime you make ... (read in full...)

Is it worth a second chance?

Q.   Hi. I recently discovered that my boyfriend had a few meetings with his ex a few months ago. On finding out, i broke up with him as soon as i got the chance. I told him how i found out and he eventually admitted to it all. I was more angry than any...

A.   10 April 2011: Ask him why he did this to you? why he couldn't tell you? Tell him that you don't know if your just saying it, if you got back together it would take time to get back to usual, to trust him. Would you rather give him a second chance or not? think of ... (read in full...)

Family doesn't like BF, but I love him. Any ideas?

Q.   Ive been with my bf for almost 2 years and my family n friends especially mum don't like him at all. For many reasons. But ill only mention 3. One, he showed up to my house drunk early one morning. Knocking at my window so loud that mum heard i...

A.   10 April 2011: I think you should talk to your mum and tell her how you feel. She won't want to stop you, from loving him. She just cares, i havent heard any good things about him but if there are more good and you would be extremly upset if you broke up then you ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my ex? It's ruined my life

Q.   Ok, please don't judge me on what i'm about to say because everyone I have tried to talk to has: My name is Hayley and i'm 15, almost 16. A few days ago my boyfriend broke up with me, he said he didn't love me anymore. We had been together fo...

A.   10 April 2011: You're not being silly, this happened to me before. I felt dead and that I had to live my life for others as if nothing i said mattered. You will get over him, i promise. It just takes time, it took me at least a year and i still think about him, i ... (read in full...)

6 months later after I break up I'm still dreaming of him

Q.   So you have to know the background to this...last October so about 6 months ago this guy and I "broke up" it was a really bad one.. And I realize it was my fault. Although I keep saying I'm over him I keep dreaming of him. and when I awake from ...

A.   10 April 2011: Okay, its natural to miss him, if you were really supposed to be together you would make things work even with him moving and everything, it would be more exciting to see eachover. Think about it and think of the postives and negatives, why did you ... (read in full...)

6 months later after I break up I'm still dreaming of him

Q.   So you have to know the background to this...last October so about 6 months ago this guy and I "broke up" it was a really bad one.. And I realize it was my fault. Although I keep saying I'm over him I keep dreaming of him. and when I awake from ...

A.   10 April 2011: Okay, its natural to miss him, if you were really supposed to be together you would make things work even with him moving and everything, it would be more exciting to see eachover. Think about it and think of the postives and negatives, why did you ... (read in full...)

6 months later after I break up I'm still dreaming of him

Q.   So you have to know the background to this...last October so about 6 months ago this guy and I "broke up" it was a really bad one.. And I realize it was my fault. Although I keep saying I'm over him I keep dreaming of him. and when I awake from ...

A.   10 April 2011: Okay, its natural to miss him, if you were really supposed to be together you would make things work even with him moving and everything, it would be more exciting to see eachover. Think about it and think of the postives and negatives, why did you ... (read in full...)

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