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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So,I am meeting this guy half a year. We re meeting once in 10 - 14 days. I am wondering what kind of man he is, (he is over 40) when he does something wrong to me, like I got sexually tr. desease, but very easy one, I told him, its from him, he promised we go together to doctor, promised, promised.. I suggested just to give me the contact to the doctor as I am not living in my home country. He said its good idea. But never gave me the contact. I arranged doctor myself but 1 week later, which made me loose a lot of time. Its not something sooo serious, but I see he wants me to take care of all even his mistakes myself. Other time promised to let me 4 days free place in appartment in between my rents. Last day he refused. Then when I met him he suggested holidays together, always like a big present to appologise.It can be ´love, without any comitments, duties, but I feel like suffering too much and the presents dont make me feel better. Does woman has to learn to be THAT strong or I guess I just need other type of man. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, macdubh712  +, writes (14 April 2011):
Darlin', you have to realize what you are worth as a person. You are probably a good person and I can tell from what you said on here he is NOT a good person. He is playing you like a fiddle. DON'T STAND FOR IT. Do not allow this man to walk all over you; he does not deserve you. If you continue on a path with him you will continue to get hurt.
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