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*ants to do what is right
writes:well im 17 , and my friend who is 22 has been in a relationship for around 4 years , his fiancee has just had a baby but he didnt seem to happy , he was scared of being a daddy eventhough he loves his daughter to bits , he asked me advice on being a parent as he knows he can trust me and i will tell him the truth, since we started talking alot things changed and i developed feelings for him but i disguised them , but one day he openly admitted that he had feelings for me and that he wanted to leave his fiancee. i said to him your not leaving her for me and he said no he said whether i get you afterwards or not is your decision but i want to leave her anyway , i didnt know what to reply so i just put oki , he has sent me flowers and things but i dont know what to do because i think that he truly does love her deep down but hes just unsure bacuase they have been through a rocky patch, him and her are still together at the minute and he loves his baby to bits , i think he is trying to hide everything that is going on with her by making his feelings for me stronger , i do love him to bits but i need to do whats right by him and i know he loves her what do i say to him , please help x xx x x
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reader, wants to do what is right +, writes (20 July 2009):
wants to do what is right is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou , that helps alot , i have now text him saying that i am here for him as a friend and that if he needs to talk i always will but as soon as he puts one foot out of line or says anything about his feelings for me then thats it x x x x your help means alot cheers x
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Tell him that if he flirts with you again you will have to stop seeing him completely. That should include no phone calls and no sms or emails...be tough about this or you could be partly responsible for them separating and you don't want to live with that.
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reader, wants to do what is right +, writes (20 July 2009):
wants to do what is right is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou! it is exactly what i want to do but if i just stop replying to his texts and things he will think i am being weird with him , have you got any advice on what i could say him to show him that he can talk to me but he cant flirt with me , if you get what i mean x x x x x
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