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writes:I've basically met my online boyfriend 14 months ago, and we know everything about each other. I live in California, and him in Florida; being across the country from each other, and both of us going to school, we did not have a chance to meet, and was looking forward for this summer. My whole family knows about him and they've all talked to him on the phone or through video call and absolutely adore him. His parents know about me as well, but the problem is: I am 17 years old, and he is 19, due to the age difference and being illegal, and not enough trust between his mother to let me stay at their house this August because I am not 18, it is basically impossible for me to go there, but she said if I was 18, it would be no problem. I decided that I'll just stay at a hotel, but another problem is that I can't go there until he gets his car. His parents are willing to buy him a car because he is going off to college this year, but his dad is in the verge of getting a divorce with his wife, and helping him with a car is the last thing on his mind. And his Grandmother is willing to help as well but she's up in Michigan and she's coming back to Orlando sometime in August. If she doesn't come back soon enough for me to go to Florida for the last 2 weeks of August, then I have no chance of going there this summer.So we're thinking of meeting upcoming spring break - spring break for me is sometime in April-probably the second week. But my birthday is on the 14th, and his parents will not allow me to stay at their house unless I'm 18; so there is another problem.I don't know what to do! I'm moving out there to Florida next summer for college, and I don't want to meet my online boyfriend like that! What should I do???? Please help me! Suggestions??
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reader, ogxtina +, writes (21 July 2009):
ogxtina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's not like he lives in a different city but a different state, and it's across the country from where I live. It's not very easy to just fly there for the weekend and come back and expect myself to be moving out there next summer for college and move in with him..
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 If its ment to be it will....doesnt matter when you meet him....its fate hun, if you meet him when you move then that might have to be the only option! Just carry on talking like you have...cant you plan to take a weekend trip somewhere?
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