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*liiexxx
writes:my parents really want to meet my bf but im really scared and nervous that they will judge him straight away i dont think its fair at all.my last bf they met when we went up to my room my mum would make my brother chek on us like 24-7 it was so annoyin and since then i wouldnt bring my bfs home becoz of it they think my bf is goin to sit down at the table and stuff wen he's obviously not what can i do to become of this please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Tell them that it isnt fair that they dont trust you to be alone. Teall them that they raised you better to be dong bad things with him alone. let them know wht they want about him for a couple of weeks.
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 I agree with satindesire on this.Your bringing your bf into your parents house.He should take the time to talk to them and not hide out in your room.I know it can be awkward and uncomfortable to do so,but it is still the right thing to do. Try staying in the living area of the house on the first visit and watching tv.If you do go to your room leave the door open.Before you judge your parents harshly try putting yourself in there shoes.I know you are an adult but you are still there child.Give your parents a chance to get comfortable with him him before trying to hide him is basically what I`m trying to say.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Thats parents for you...your there little girl and you always will be....my mum does the same...they only want the best for you.....if he is a good guy then they will see that....maybe just explain to them how your feeling...and to have more confidence in the men you bring home.....just think they only have to meet him the once then you can leave it for abit....im sure your boyfriend wont mind...its normal parents are fussy and picky when it comes to there kids partners.....just dont worry to much about it....if hes a good bloke they will see that....and im sure they know you wouldnt be with any old crap!
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reader, eliiexxx +, writes (20 July 2009):
eliiexxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thanks for information
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