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How do I break off the engagement to my long distance partner? I've found someone better for myself!

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Question - (19 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2007)
A female Ghana age 41-50, *aame Yaa writes:

What should I do.

Am 28 years, I was engage with this guy whom i did not know, He was introduced to me by a friend. The guy is in abroad we were contacting each other on phone, I posted my picture to him and he also posted his to me. We talked on phone for over one year and there was no money or anything. he promise to send me money but he don't do so.

Anytime I talk about marriage he says I should wait for him to get his paper. Naturally I did not love him but i was forcing to love him because there was no man in my life.

Until 4 months ago I meet another guy, this guy is

caring, he does everything for me. And he has promise to marry me. Please help me I don't know what to tell the other guy leaving in abroad.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (19 September 2007):

Tell the distant bf the truth as soon as you can.

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A female reader, lil_mizz_biatch666 United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2007):

well if you don't love this other man and he's not living with you i dont see much of a problem

why dont you just tell him you've found someone else and that you dont feel for him as much as you thought you did

I know you think he might be hurt at first but for all you know he could have been with another woman over there!!

and plus its not really a relationship if it's over the phone!

just tell him nicely that you cant marry someone you have never met.

he should understand , if not just tell him you want to stay friends

x x x

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