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How do I ask her out and what should I wear on the first date?

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Question - (29 January 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2014)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *harlton181814 writes:

This us a very short question. Okay I have been seen this girl for 1 month now he haven't met yet we speak everyday non stop, she's great a lovely caring girl I like her a lot, I am going to ask her out in person when we meet. What do I wear and how do I ask her out? I want everything to be perfect for the first time anyone help me please ....

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A male reader, Charlton181814 United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2014):

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Thanks guys

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A female reader, Daisy_Daisy United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2014):

Daisy_Daisy agony auntSo you have already arranged to meet? Well, first of all, see how you feel about her in real life before "asking her out". Just spend some time together and see how it feels. You might not like her as much in the flesh.

If you do like her, and it seems that she feels the same, end the meeting by saying something like "I really enjoyed today and wondered if you'd like to go on a date next Saturday (or whenever) - I know of a lovely restaurant that I'd like to take you to".

As for what to wear on your first meet, keep it casual since it isn't an actual date. Clean, smart but casual like nice jeans with a shirt and sweater. Don't overdo the aftershave!

Good luck and have fun!

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (29 January 2014):

Asking a girl out is a piece of cake bit it's different for every girl. For the most part you simply ask them to come out with you on this date and time.

Wear a tuxedo.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (29 January 2014):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Well wear clothes first of all… :). Do not over dress, or under dress. A lot of guys dress up all fancy and give the woman the wrong idea…as if this is the way they look all the time. Casual is what you are looking for, because that is how she will see you most of the time.

How should you ask her out? This is really tough, and hard to do, so pay close attention!!! I can feel the sweat already. Okay say this… “Hi, I was wondering if you would like to go out with me?” Yep, it’s really that complicated…Now let her know what you have in mind…dinner, movie, or coffee. And good luck.

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