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How can women want to touch someone with a small penis?

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Question - (13 August 2007) 17 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it wierd to go from wee-man to Andre the Giant

I have a serious problem, Im not a virgin but See i fear sleeping with women alot cause i have a terrible fear of being seen....well... soft. I have a very tiny thingthang when im soft but more then make up when im hard. I mean realistically i go from 2-7.5 with the slightest touch but whowants to touch a lil thing. lol. This is a serious question first off are there other guys like this and second is it weird? ladies? Gentleman?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

Hi! just to witness I've got exactly the same problem... Guess that's why they make the difference between "showers" and "growers"...

Got such a small thing when it's soft that I hesitate going to the swimming pool! I hate for people to see me naked when not aroused! As soon as I'm a bit excited it's no problem anymore tough... It does extend and thickens a lot! It's quite surprising actually...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

heya,

dont worry about it at all.lots of women dont care about size i know i and my mates dont.Infact some women prefer smaller.;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

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Good Luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008):

dude chill i'm 36 years old bisexual bottom male and i'm lucky if mine even reaches 2and a half hard. My balls stay inside alomst all the time and i have to pull my penis out from my body just so i can pee standind up which i hardly ever do. My boyfriend allways humilates me and says i should have been a girl because of my lack of manhood. So be happy with what you got. It could be worse you could be a raisen smuggle like me.

Oh and yeah to a bottom the bigger the better.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008):

dude chill i'm 36 years old bisexual bottom male and i'm lucky if mine even reaches 2and a half hard. My balls stay inside alomst all the time and i have to pull my penis out from my body just so i can pee standind up which i hardly ever do. My boyfriend allways humilates me and says i should have been a girl because of my lack of manhood. So be happy with what you got. It could be worse you could be a raisen smuggle like me.

Oh and yeah to a bottom the bigger the better.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007):

Yeah i have the same problem

But i figured out that if you have to pee your penis will stay a little bigger for some reason. So i just load up on water a couple hours before foreplay.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007):

Woman generally don't see your soft penis first, since you would be aroused before taking your clothes off. Once she knows that it is bigger when erect, the smaller soft version won't be an issue.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (15 August 2007):

Sandman agony auntYou're a "grower". Some men are "show-ers". Men who are growers have penises that look noticably small (2 inches). But when they get hard - turns out they're not so small at all! Show(ers) have penises that 'seem" large when soft. Hanging maybe 5-6inches when soft - sometimes longer than that. But when they get hard - it doesn't get much bigger than when they were soft. It's just hard now.

So then comes the women. You've got the woman who will love to see a huge flopping penis pop out when she pulls his pants down. A turn on for her. But don't worry about her. Pleasantly surprise the woman you're with. She'll take your pants off and see this little wee penis and think "aww, it's so small". Or she won't care and think nothing at all. but when you start to get hard - she'll be pleasantly surprised to discover it's not 2 inches at all! WOW she might say. Now it's time to do your part and put it where it belongs :)

But you better know how to please her because if not, large or small, you just didn't please her. And that she will not like. Not the size, but the fact that she wasn't pleased/pleasured.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, so sick United States +, writes (14 August 2007):

I AM GOING TO BE TOTALLY HONEST...girls usually dont care about that! I know that my ex bf dick was small when he wasent hard...and when he got hard...which was quick and easy..it got a lot bigger! It never even phased me! If u want a tip...let her get u hard before she sees it. Play around for a while...then take your dick out.

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A female reader, girl with a point of view United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2007):

its not the size babe its what you do if your not comfortable start out with oral and trust big penis's arent that great yer the size is different but sometimes it can hurt trust me go with what you have there are more ways to make the bedroom more exciting .. just be confident its sexyx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007):

Wow. That's funny you mention that cause just yesterday my sister was telling me about this guy she had been dating who she invited up to her apt. and I guess she felt his penis and said that it felt like a pencil.

Anyway, YOUR penis is totally normal. Every guy I have dated (except for one) has a small penis when he does not have an erection. It's kind of cute. I think.

Now if you had a two inch boner, then I'd be worried! haha. Or a pencil...

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (13 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntLarge or small doesn't matter but a well-dressed penis is truly in style. Always wear a condom.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (13 August 2007):

kenny agony auntAlot of mens penises are very small when not standing to attention. 7.5 inches is not a bad size atal. I think that alot of woman will tell you that its not the size of the penis that counts but more how you use it that makes all the difference.

Good luck

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A female reader, girlwhoneedshelp United Kingdom +, writes (13 August 2007):

girlwhoneedshelp agony auntIt's a known fact that the smaller the penis when it isn't erect, the more potential it has to get bigger. Stop worrying about the size of it when its not erect! 7.5 inches is a very good size, and after all this is what you'll be using, not you're 2 inch non erect penis!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007):

All men's penises are small when soft. And if you are aroused, she shouldn't have to touch it soft, b/c it will naturally get hard. Women are aware that a soft penis is going to be small, and it's no big deal.

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A female reader, Sassy7613 United States +, writes (13 August 2007):

I had a boyfriend when I was 22 that had the same thing...I honestly don't think he was even 2 when soft...the first time I saw his penis it was already hard in his pants so I didn't see it soft but he was over 7 like yourself when hard...however, i do have to admit that it was a little akward seeing it later when soft...it seemed like it had to have sunk back into him...lol...in the end I knew what was there and loved it anyway...it still pleasured me so no big deal!! i think if anything it was more exciting to see it grow bigger and bigger :)

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (13 August 2007):

flower girl agony auntMost women don't actually care about the size hard or soft, it's actually alot more important that you know the right way to use it.

Take care.xx.

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